Ok, the guy I was madly in love with broke up with me. The next day I saw him at school he came up hugged me held my hand and kissed me. He's been doing this for the past two weeks. When ever I ask him are we dating, on a break, or broken up he just says, "I dunno." He always whispers his cute little spanish saying in my ear telling me he still loves me and that i'm his girl. Since we're broken up I flirt with guys. My gguy friend was hugging me and my ("X") bf put his arms inbetween us a pryed us apart. I was flirting with another one of my friends and my "X" went up to him and told him he was going to kill him and that i was his so he better back off... blah blah blah. But when he flirts with a girl i can't do anything because when i get mad he gets all upset saying "Why are you mad you arent my girl you can't get mad at me!" so it doesnt make any sense. whatts the outcome gonna be? We want to be together so badly but we can't because of the stress from our grades and parents. help.
2006-12-07 05:19:07 · 4 answers · asked by Just another xXemoXx kid... 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your ex sounds pretty controlling. Stop letting him have the upper hand on your emotions and do as you please. If he threatens someone holding you tell him to back off. Once you begin standing up for yourself he will realize he is not in charge of you, or who you're with. Ask yourself how badly you truly want to be with someone who thinks he has you on a leash and treats you as such. Try to improve your grades so you can do more of what you like in the future, but I sure hope you don't go back out with this guy.
2006-12-07 05:32:18 · answer #1 · answered by Me, Thrice-Baked 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is young and is playing games with you. I would tell him if you aren't his girl than stop kissing you and telling you he loves you.
2006-12-07 05:37:37 · answer #2 · answered by joker:P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The boy is completely comfused!!!!!! give it time and let him air out, by the end of the day he should figure it out
2006-12-07 05:22:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thnk you guys need a break.....you all are being childish and immature.
2006-12-07 05:24:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋