he gets mad. It's like he wants me to wait on him to be the man i know he can be.If you want to be with a person and want more and better things out of life you should do it together and support each other right?
2006-12-07 05:08:15 · 10 answers · asked by imacutie2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are absolutely right. I mean he is the one that broke up with you and said he needed his space. What I think might of happened is that he is scared of losing control. He wants his space but wants to know that you will be there just waiting for him to come around. It does not and should not work like that. If you agreed to spend time apart and not date other people, thats fine, but as he needs his space, this is a time for you to reevaluated the relationship and also make sure that this is what you want.
If you do not feel like calling him or want to live your own life, try not to let him make you feel guilty for doing so. You are right, relationships are all about supporting each other and you gave him him space when he asked for it, he should respect your decisions as well.
2006-12-07 05:19:57 · answer #1 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you on that because the both of you need to support each other! Since the both of you have gone your separate ways four months ago, what's the point on you waiting for him if there's no relationship? You moved on with your life and he needs to do the same for himself and he needs to let you go so you can continue to move forward! Besides, you deserve better!
2006-12-07 13:12:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with you, men are difficult. maybe didnt want space to the point where you guys dont talk myabe he wanted the kind of space where you guys dont do everything together but still hangout once in a while and talk on the phone. But, if you guys wer dating for 6 yrs, i agree with you...you should do it togther and support each other....for 6 yrs you did it...why not do long?
2006-12-08 08:54:32 · answer #3 · answered by ashley g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I HAVE A BF AND WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 9 YRS AND I FEEL LIKE IF YOU HAVE A PROBLEM IN THE RELATIONSHIP YOU SHOULD WORK IT OUT.DON'T LET HIM KEEP ON TALKING ABOUT HE NEED SPACE BECAUSE WHEN HE LAY UP WITH SOME ELSE HE CAN BRING A STD BACK WHAT DO YOU LOVE YOUR LIFE OR HIM YOU CHOSE WHICH ONE YOU REALLY WANT.
2006-12-07 13:17:39 · answer #4 · answered by WAZUP 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to keep you on the team so when one doesn't get the job done he can call a sub in .....then comes you!! All smiles and sighing!!! Don't be his go to girl when all else fails......stop being so available and stop calling him.....be friends but not stupid....your feelings are the most important not his.
2006-12-07 13:15:07 · answer #5 · answered by Hot one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a fat yes hun ,He is playing you big time .Kick his sorry butt to the curb for good ,no calls no nothing! let him be mad of course it won't matter cause you'll be having to much fun with someone that wants to be with you to care about his feelings .After all he does'nt seem to care about your feelings at all so why waste time and energy to his childish ways .
2006-12-07 13:14:01 · answer #6 · answered by sparklin_aries_4167 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him he needed time and that is what you are doing. tell him when and if he is ready to call you he needs to call you, and tell him you aren't going to promise you'll be around cause you wait for no man. Good Luck
2006-12-07 13:19:18 · answer #7 · answered by goodlookin.mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are right. he needs to grow up and step to the plate. It sounds like he doesnt want to be with you, but he doesnt want you to move on either. you need to get him in check.
2006-12-07 13:11:58 · answer #8 · answered by smitty4626 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you
2006-12-07 13:10:55 · answer #9 · answered by Me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are absoultly right it takes two!
2006-12-07 13:13:12 · answer #10 · answered by Brianna247 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋