so...i realy need some help. Im in high school and am a senior and i have sociology class with this cute junior and i think she likes me n i talk with her most of the time in that class or when i see her in the hallways n in lunch. we joke around in the class n laugh. she's cool. so i need some ways to get to know her better to become better friends caus i dunno if she like anyone else. maybe a way to find out if she likes me, thru her friends? i got dumped earlier this year n it sucked. so i dont wanna go thru that sh$t again. plz help me out.
2006-12-07 05:00:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask her if you and a group of friends would like to go to the movies and or hang out together and if she says yes then she obviously wants to get to know you better and if not then just say ok and continue being her friend
2006-12-07 05:06:36 · answer #1 · answered by backtothedisaster08 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your already on the right track, your making friends with her. If she did not like you, she would not talk to you outside of the class that she is "forced" to be in your company. Now if you want to take the relationship to the next level, ask her to a school function, like a basketball game, or some other function that is not private- like going to the mall or food courts. From there move into a more private "date", like going to a movie. Play the game slowly, and don't force yourself on her, if it is meant to be t will develop into something more. Good Luck.
2006-12-07 13:08:10 · answer #2 · answered by mischa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well start up conversations like ask your about her hobbies, what she likes to do on the weekends, and different things like that to get to know her Little better. If you have most of the same interests then ask if she would maybe like to go out on a date with you. Like if there is a movie she really wants to see then say something like "Oh dang i want to see the movie to," then there is your chance to ask her out to the movie! Go Get Her, Good Luck!
2006-12-07 13:07:38 · answer #3 · answered by ~*Sweet Pea*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out! Tell her that you want to get to know her better. The worst that she can say is no. If you don't ask you will never know how she truly feels. And if she likes you I'm sure that you will know while your on your "date". So just talk to her. Get to know how she feels. I hope that you will like the outcome of my advice.
GOOD LUCK!!!
From,
~ someone~
2006-12-07 13:07:24 · answer #4 · answered by Bubblez707 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to hang out with you. Maybe see a movie or something to start out. If you want to figure out if she likes you before you ask her on a date and you're too shy, you can ask some friends but you should be able to do it yourself; you're old enough and you already talk to her! Good luck.
2006-12-07 13:03:36 · answer #5 · answered by tia 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just keep doin what ur doin...if it happens she should be smart and let you kno herself that she likes you...now she might not just come out and say it directly but she could start wanting to hang out with you a lot more...away from everyone else...just go with the flow, if its meant to be then it will be...
2006-12-07 13:05:32 · answer #6 · answered by TrueHappiness<3 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
try to connect with her by asking who she listens to on the radio.. then ask about her favorite bands... with that just proceed and just discuss your favs.. ask about concerts shes attended, then maybe make a mental note of her fav bands and see if they are coming to town any time soon and then ask her to join you.. maybe ask her to join you at the local coffee shop to see a live jazz performance and you two could coffee taste.. ask her if she would join you sometime soon to pick out a christmas gift for your mom or sister... that way it isnt a obvious try to spend time with her but a friendly hand ... i have tons of ideas if you would like more just email me.. good luck!
2006-12-07 13:06:20 · answer #7 · answered by yourmygoodfeeling 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just try to hang out with her as much as you can outside of school. but hang out in a big group of friends. see how she reacts. right now im in the same predicament. and i just recenly found out (yesterday) that this guy does really like me. so pretty much my advice is to just go with the flow. if she doesnt like you then just relax if she does then try to get some one on one time with her. =]
good luck and happy holidays.
2006-12-07 13:06:26 · answer #8 · answered by libralexi89 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't hurt anything if you ask. And if she doesn't don't get crushed by it. More fish in the sea.
2006-12-07 13:03:48 · answer #9 · answered by DJB 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if youre having girl problems i feel bad for you son...i got 99 problems but a ***** aint one
2006-12-07 13:04:05 · answer #10 · answered by the one 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋