2006-12-07 04:57:41 · 8 answers · asked by Edwin V 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you realize you cant imagine a day of life without them, when its not just lust. Its about wanting to do all you can for that person, to take care of them, and do all God says to do for a mate. and when you know that person will do the same for you. To be on the same page as far as beliefs and morals, to agree on how you think children should be raise. and to be in agreement how you handle family situations. Is this person someone you can talk easily to and expect them to hear you, and discuss things with you in respect. Just see any possible mate and ask is this somoene you would still want to be with if they lost their looks or got out, and had a disability at some point. Would you still love them and want only them? If so, you are on the right track. For so many its just about the now and the lust. What happens when kids come? when other problems come. Will this person go thru this with you and be someone to encourage you and help you? How do they do you now, or other ppl? Its not just how they treat you, how do they trat other ppl, that says a lot. cuz it shows their true nature. easy to be all loving in a new relationshp when all is well. But , how do they handle stress and problems. Much to watch before marriage and ask about. Ask God and He will show you. Dont marry till you know. and have God as number one in your lives, and the rest just works out, if you obey Him. God bless you.
2006-12-07 05:06:07 · answer #1 · answered by full gospel shirley 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just know. If you can imagine being with that person for the rest of your life and your relationship is amazing and you both work hard at it then you found it. You just know.
2006-12-07 13:08:04 · answer #2 · answered by mrd1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the person just stands out in a crowd, physically, socially, mentally and emotionally. when me and my pumpkin split up i realized that i wasnt into starting over and when i did go on dates, i just wasnt satisfyed with the people that i was with. Everytime i thought of my future, he was always a part of it in some way. I could be in a room full of great looking guys and he could be covered with dog sh***, and i would still be by his side! I was even happier when he felt the same way and we got back together, now i dont think that mother nature herself can break us up
2006-12-07 13:04:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can't answer that for you because only you know when some one is the one your heart will tell you so and everything would feel so right and you have a regret in your mind or a doubt. but take your time because the one will wait for you under any circumstances.
2006-12-07 13:03:39 · answer #4 · answered by Mz.Tweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've dated for a year or so and learned that you're compatible when it comes to: religion, education, goals, morals, standards, future plans for life, family, children, etc.
2006-12-07 13:01:07 · answer #5 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you see them walk into the room with a big "1" on their shirt
That's how you know they're the "ONE"
2006-12-07 13:03:03 · answer #6 · answered by Matt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When the thought of being without them tears you up inside.
2006-12-07 13:02:24 · answer #7 · answered by F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Know he is the one when They say You have cancer and You're gonna die.. and You die with them.. then you knwo, your one is gone
2006-12-07 13:00:45 · answer #8 · answered by smokingstonersweetheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋