my bf hurt me and he had already gave me a gift. i didnt give him his yet even though he knows i got him one. well he hurt me like i said. so im keeping his gift he gave me and the one i bought him. it may be selfish but who cares, the bastard hurt me. why do i have to do the righteous thing here, and give him his gift. im taking it back to the store and get my money back. i feel payback is in order and on top of that i broke up with him. and when i say he hurt me i really do mean that. i have just cause to be mad. and if i didnt actually give it to him yet then that means i can take it back right?
2006-12-07 04:55:57 · 13 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sure i can feel you about not giving him is gift. But payback? No do not do that. You are walking down a bad road. Have you ever heard of Karma? So if he hurts you, do NOT try to get him back or you will then be just as wrong as him thus KARMA will get back at you to ad then the cycle will continue.
So if he hurt you, break up and leave him. Let karma take care of the rest because trust he will be getting his soon. Revenge and payback will not do anything but hurt you in the long run.
So be strong and dont stoop to those childish games and just let karma take care of your ex.
2006-12-07 05:00:46 · answer #1 · answered by Latavish G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I use to be very revengeful, but I realized that it hurts me just as much. My favorite song says it all, "Living well is the best revenge".
He hurt you so don't give him the chance to do it again, but let it go cause otherwise it will hurt you more.
As for the gift, feel free to take it back without thinking of it as revenge. He gave you a gift which means you are free to keep yours, but as you are no longer dating him you have no need to gift him with anything.
Take the money and buy yourself something that will make you smile
2006-12-07 05:44:03 · answer #2 · answered by masterjennjenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be fairly young, at a certain time in life you start to figure out that "getting even" is just too much dang energy to expend on someone clearly not worth the energy...give him back the gift he gave you and return the gift you bought him and drop the whole thing. You can be mad but "getting even" is just worth the trouble and energy.
2006-12-07 05:00:01 · answer #3 · answered by nomming 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He gave you a gift. It is yours to do with as you like. And, yes, you can return the gift that you bought. But is revenge worth it in the long run?
2006-12-07 04:59:59 · answer #4 · answered by honiebyrd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if you are deeply hurt. How can a boyfriend become a bastard suddenly after giving a gift. What did he give???
2006-12-07 04:59:18 · answer #5 · answered by StraightDrive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
REVENGE is overrated. It will never be enough. Your payback is already breaking up with him. Take the gift back , but i wouldnt consider it revenge :\
2006-12-07 04:58:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do whatevever the hell you want, and stop telling the world about it, we dont care what you do with the presents.
If you have broken up with him, he isnt your bf anymore...so why worry about it.? Yeah, its selfish to keep it and the adult thing would be just to give it back to him and tell him you dont want to see him again.
2006-12-07 05:01:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be mad at yourself for spending money on bastard guys who hurt you.
2006-12-07 04:58:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have the right to keep it is was a "gift" after all, and go get your money back and pamper your self with it
2006-12-07 05:33:21 · answer #9 · answered by Tara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get your refund girl
2006-12-07 04:59:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋