2006-12-07 04:47:35 · 12 answers · asked by Bout It 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to your mom. Calmly. No hysterics! Ask her why she doesn't want you to talk to him.
How old are you? Whether you know it or not now, your mom knows a lot and her most important job is protecting you. She may know or feel something about your boyfriend and wants to keep you from getting hurt or in trouble.
How long have you been seeing this guy? Is he a good student? Is he respectful to your parents? Does he treat to well? If you asked him to, would he speak with your parents to put them at ease? If he wouldn't, he's not a keeper anyway.
Consider your mom's point of view. She knows more than you think.
2006-12-07 04:54:48 · answer #1 · answered by kwill1229 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How old are you?
If you still live at home she can control whether you 2 talk or not.
I didn't realize it until recently, but you mom knows things about situations and yourself that you can't even see, trust her she is doing what is right for you.
2006-12-07 12:50:10 · answer #2 · answered by Bee 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How old are you? If you are out of the house you can do as you please, but if you are still at home it is her house and her rules which you must respect. Why doesn't she like him? If he is a good guy and treats you well then I would think she wouldn't have a problem. Ultimately you do what makes you happy without causing to much harm to those involved.
2006-12-07 12:52:14 · answer #3 · answered by vonhartleben 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your mother has something called "wisdom"..what you will have once you get to her age. Believe me...if she felt the need to say it its probably for the better. She loves you I am sure, so she wouldn't want to take something good from you.
He may be bad news. I know it may seem like you won't, but you'll probably love several men throughout your life time.
Get over it for now.
2006-12-07 12:50:59 · answer #4 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2006-12-10 17:18:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't keep it in your mind and understand your mom. just a simple tease may reduce her madness. let your bf keep away from your mohter as a moment while your tricks to your mom is underway.
2006-12-07 12:55:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
screw that ,tell her about Romeo and Jullets syndrome..real thing...it says the more you keep two people apart, even if they hate eachother they will try to be together.
anyway..that sucks...talk to him anyway...tell her that you love him and she needs to get over it, and if she cant its only hurting the relationship between you and her...thats what happoned to my bf and his mom...we are still together ,bu tthey fight alot now...he doesnt get mad at me...he gets mad at her....if you 2 are meant to be, it'll be ok
2006-12-07 12:56:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just find a way to talk to him. or pretend to be so depressed that you might committ suicide adn sh eshould feel sorry and let you talk to him. But sometimes that takes to long. hope this helps
2006-12-07 12:50:15 · answer #8 · answered by taken4732 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
it depends on how old you are and why your mom doesnt want you talking to him
2006-12-07 12:49:39 · answer #9 · answered by sexyandsingle 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it depends. why does your mom not want you talking to him?
2006-12-07 12:51:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋