I asked a gorgeous friend of mine to go to a xmas concert w/ me this sunday. she said she'd like to go but has to help with a xmas party her mom is throwing. she didnt know which day the party was, sat or sun, so she said she'd let me know whether or not she could go. She seemed like she was happy to see me and was glad I asked her. This would be the second time we went out. The first time we also went to a concert but it was for a college assingment for our music apprec. class. We went out to eat and I paid for both our tickets. Date? I dont know. But anyway, I aked her about the xmas concert monday. Now it's thursday and I havent heard from her. What does this mean? What should I do?
2006-12-07 04:44:47 · 24 answers · asked by packerswes4 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe she is busy getting ready for her mothers christmas party. I would call her again and she if she would like to go. Good luck!!!
2006-12-07 04:49:54 · answer #1 · answered by red1967 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not take that long for her to know if the party will be on sat. or sun. unless she can't reach her mom. Other than that I'd just think she is trying to avoid telling you she doesn't want to go to the xmas concert with you or out with you again. You might have read her wrong when you thought she had a great time with you.
2006-12-07 12:52:21 · answer #2 · answered by great_business2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give her a quick call. She may have just got caught up with helping her mom. Or something else has come up. Be polite and ask her if she found out what day the party is, and if she is able to go? If she tells you this is when the party is. Move on with your alternate plans. Don't take it personal. You never know what is going on with people. If you really like this girl, after the holidays I would just come right out with your feelings. This may be hard but it is the only real way you will know hers.
2006-12-07 12:51:14 · answer #3 · answered by mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have 2 options: 1- Ask her and say that if she isn't able to go, you'll ask someone else. 2- Assume she's not interested ask someone else and if she turns up later wanting to go, tell her that since you didn't hear, you figured she had other plans. It depends on how you want to be treated.
It's a little bit rude of her to string you along, and I'd figure that if a person were interested in me, they'd have found out their schedule Monday evening, and let you know Tuesday morning. I would assume she's just not that into you if she didn't respond right away.
2006-12-07 12:50:10 · answer #4 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask her again, like "you had told me that you had a xmas party to help with what day was that again?...so are you still going to go with me on Sun to the concert?"
2006-12-07 12:49:25 · answer #5 · answered by joker:P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...tricky in a sense.... don't call her...I think you should text message her or e-mail her so she can get back to you. If shes not interested than you're giving her a chance to tell you in a way that is not putting her on the spot. If you call her maybe she'll get annoyed, who knows wht she might be thinking you know?...On the other hand she might want another call, but she did say she would let you know and she didn't either she avoiding contact so you get the hint or she wants you t go after her. I think your best bet is to e-mail or text her telling her that you hvaent heard from her and your going to assume she is not able to make it since she ahsn't got back to you, but if your wrong, to let you know. Hope this helps
2006-12-07 12:50:28 · answer #6 · answered by Brittany 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just ask her again. Say something like, did u speak to ur mom about the xmas party? or Hey...I just wanted to know if ur gonna be able to make it on Sunday. Be casual, and don't apply pressure, be very nice about it. Maybe it slipped her mind.
2006-12-07 12:52:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unlike the other answerers...
I think you should skip the re-asking about the concert and just go straight into telling her you like her.
At the moment you're trying to read signs, when you could be finding out the facts....
Go on - give it a go -- you'll be no worse off!
2006-12-07 12:50:15 · answer #8 · answered by mrwendal1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take that as a well if i am not doing anything else or if nothing better turns up then maybe i may go with you ....hmmmm..take a Friend who will show a bit more excitement of being offed free tickets to a concert because if my Friend offed i would be over the moon
2006-12-07 12:51:10 · answer #9 · answered by wopski 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got suspicious when she didn't know if her mothers party was Sat or Sun. Its her mothers party and she's helping, dont tell me she didn't know what day the party was. That was her way of saying no.
2006-12-07 12:52:04 · answer #10 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋