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My brother and I both want me to visit him in WI. I live in Indiana. I can either fly for 30 mins and ride 3 hours by car (he would have to make a 4 hour round trip to pick me up at the airport - me paying for gas of course), or I can be almost delivered to his door by train (14 hours) and save him the trip for almost the same $.

He wants me to take the train. I have a spinal disease and would much rather fly and skip all that time sitting and recoverying from the trip.

Sometimes I wonder, does he really even want me to visit at all? Am I worth that round trip to him? What would you guys say to him?

2006-12-07 04:43:31 · 4 answers · asked by outdone 4 in Family & Relationships Family

Should I give him a hard time on this or just take the train and not make an issue of it?

2006-12-07 04:51:15 · update #1

4 answers

I would tell him that you cannot visit unless he picks you up at the airport. Let him know that you appreciate him making the long drive but it's asinine for you to take a train!

2006-12-07 04:51:57 · answer #1 · answered by Mum2Boys 4 · 1 0

Who are you talking about? Your Father? First of all, don't wonder about anything. Ask. Explain the difficulties and work together to find the best solution to this. He may not even be thinking about your physical limitations and speaking to him may clear this whole matter up.

2006-12-07 04:50:15 · answer #2 · answered by FastDyna 2 · 0 0

If it was my sister I would let her pick her choice of travel and do whatever necessary to get her. But then again I'm really nice....lol

2006-12-07 04:49:22 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0 0

Maybe the train station is nearer his place where it is easier for him to pick you up. Travel at your convinience. you are paying for it.

2006-12-07 05:09:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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