I've been dating this guy for 6 months now, and he told me that we were in a relationship. So when I became curious about him sleeping with other women I started snooping around and when I confronted him with it he told me that I was delusional. He said that we were just friends. That he never agreed to be in a relationship with me or to pursue anything serious with me. He wanted me to apologize to him for being a lying b**** and that I was the reason he didn't trust women.
Now was I being delusional because of how I perceived the word relationship when it was presented to me or was he delusional by saying we weren't in a relationship when he clearly stated that we were. Who's at fault here and what should I do??
2006-12-07 04:30:34 · 4 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're at fault for staying with this jerk. You should stop seeing him.
2006-12-07 04:33:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly you were correct for confonting him if he stated to you, that you were in a relationship together. And if this is the way he interprets relationships i don't see this man changing any time soon. If you can let the other girl know because maybe she to is being used and hurt. But i'd honestly go find a different man as hard as it can be to leave sometimes when emotionally attached but in the end, all things work out for the better, and i do believe things happen for a reason, maybe this is a way of telling you to move on, but i'll let you interpret that one. Good luck sweety, jl
2006-12-07 12:38:57 · answer #2 · answered by jessbthegirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. Next time your in a relationship be sure you know where you stand in it. Also, when you snoop your are degrading your level of natural intelligence, if don;t trust somebody talk to them if you can't beat the feeling leave the because your heart is telling you something.
2006-12-07 12:51:38 · answer #3 · answered by a h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 months is a LONG TIME to be Just dating... This guy has SERIOUS issues... Probably VOLUMES... If I were you, Id let all those other girls he is sleeping with know about you and about him!
2006-12-07 12:33:39 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋