Like after a long relationship? How much time should you spend reflecting? Can you fall in love a day later? What do you think?
2006-12-07 04:28:13 · 11 answers · asked by AdyBu 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I beg you, take the gifts life offers you and run with them..don't try to put them in a time table. Always choose love, whenever and wherever you can.
2006-12-07 04:38:44 · answer #1 · answered by nin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wear your heart on your sleeve, you can fall in love (rebound) in ten minutes after a separation. If it was a sudden break up, think about what transpired while you were together. If it was a long time coming, you already know what happened. Move forward slowly and pay attention to things that ring a bell from the past. Take your time, be selective and another relationship will pop up out of nowhere.
2006-12-07 12:37:44 · answer #2 · answered by twostories 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on how fast you can drop your baggage from the last relationship.
You may get involved the day after the break-up thinking that it's true love but then again you might be taking the problems from the last relationship into the new...
That's a very bad idea... just don't force anything... there's no rush. Have fun and let things happen naturally!
2006-12-07 12:30:48 · answer #3 · answered by Johnny! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was with a girl for 4 years and we have 2 children together. I have been single now for 3 months and am still "reflecting" and finding myself. I understand that the right woman will come along someday and from now on am going to be patient.
2006-12-07 12:34:35 · answer #4 · answered by Adventures of Dave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know when you'll fall in love again and you can't guess. Love comes when it should, not when you want it to. If you think it's that easy to fall in love then it's not really love. It takes time to get over someone, it takes time to find someone new and it takes time to build a good relationship with love.
2006-12-07 12:30:44 · answer #5 · answered by tia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't know it depends on you as a person. If I been in a long term relationship than break up with that person it might time a lot of time. It depends on how that person hurt if thats the case. But you need time to heal.
2006-12-07 12:32:49 · answer #6 · answered by angle2005star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after a long relationship, if you find yourself still thinkin about that person or still angry, then you are not ready. to fall in love with someone means past loves are no longer relevant. If you find your self loving this new person because he doesnt treat you like your ex did doesnt mean anything either, you probably is just not use to this new treatment.
2006-12-07 12:35:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looooong relationship breaks!!!! Next day love springs from the heart!!!!!! Too good to be true..... Wow, this is like Alice in Wonderland folks.... May be a computer can start lovin as soon as we switch it on.....
Do you know what love is???? Are you a fountain of love???
2006-12-07 12:33:30 · answer #8 · answered by StraightDrive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it deppends on the type of person you are. i think a little time after any relation ship is good for any one. every one can always learn a little more about them selfes. try to hold off a week or two see if you styill feel the same way if the feelings are stronger then ever go for it. if not then you have learned somthing about your self
2006-12-07 12:33:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
at least 30 years should be spent single before you try a relationship
2006-12-07 12:31:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋