I have known my boyfriend for three years now. We have been together on and off for 2yrs. I love him very much and I do believe that he loves me but he just doesnt really show it.We recently became engaged about 6 mths ago. Right at this moment I dont even know why we are together I'm more laid back and I like to go out here and there but he likes to go out to the clubs all the time. He's 28 starting out in music industry he knows people that are VIP. I haven't caught him cheating but i hear things that hes in the Club dancing with girls or he has a picture taken with one. When I confront him about all of this he tells me that there his fans and that he loves me. I do everything for him Im always there when he needs me both emotionally and financial. Just recently I was diagnoised with a medical condition I tried talking to him about it but he was too concerned about throwing his sisters party . I dont know what 2 do about us anymore I dont even feel like we r 2gether
2006-12-07 04:24:51 · 10 answers · asked by monnie_lynne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe you should just go out to the club with him just one night and see what happens
2006-12-07 04:27:15 · answer #1 · answered by Aubrey F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things like that happen all the time. You two may love each other but it sounds like you're heading in different directions. You both want different things in life. You need a guy who will listen to you and understand how you feel. If he can't talk to you about something serious like your medical condition then he's not worth your time. Sweetheart, there's a guy out there waiting for you, he'll make you happy and you'll make him happy. Don't waste time with someone who is pushing you away.
2006-12-07 04:28:00 · answer #2 · answered by tia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dancing with another is not having SEX with another
taking a picture with another is not having SEX with another
However, if you find this unacceptable, then yes, you may need to move on. Unfortunately these are all things you should have thought about before the engagement. And yes if he is trying to pursue his career in the music industry---he will need to be "out and about". Think carefully---only you can decide if you can life this type of lifestyle.
2006-12-07 04:39:54 · answer #3 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right now, because you have been diagnosed with a medical condition, the most important thing is your health and well being.
if he doesnt seem to concerned about your health now, what makes you think that he will be concerned about you later on?
love can be one of 2 things: someone can love you and care for you because you have history 2: he can be in love with you and worship the ground you walk on.
because you are ill now, its best to think about you and only you for now, look at it as some sort of test of faith...if he cant be there for you when you are down, per say, then he wont be there for you when you are up...
only YOU can decide where you wanna be....
you love him, this is true, but is your love strong enough to put your needs aside and worry about him...?
2006-12-07 04:31:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to spend the rest of your life with someone that doesn't make you happy? Tell him how you feel and find someone else. It sounds like he has already moved on and he is to afraid to tell you or admit it.
2006-12-07 04:29:14 · answer #5 · answered by RayCATNG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try having a threesome with him and some other girl. That usually opens up the lines of communication quite nicely.
2006-12-07 04:28:36 · answer #6 · answered by Lostbutnotfound 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will be really hard to leave him..... Try reaching out to your friends and maybe even family for help..... If you are serious to leave him, I am sure you can get support for family or friends....
2006-12-07 04:28:29 · answer #7 · answered by JohnS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's going to turn out just like my brother.....I bet you support him too, don't you? Or does his mother?
2006-12-07 04:27:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like you already know the answer
2006-12-07 04:27:31 · answer #9 · answered by slaphappypimp 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Send him this page.
2006-12-07 04:28:35 · answer #10 · answered by Axel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋