Seven years ago I had back surgery, I need to wear protection at night (diapers). I was just wondering how many people find this too weird to handle if you were dating someone with this kind of condition. Please don't say go to the doctor, I've already been there.
2006-12-07 04:23:04 · 13 answers · asked by b T 4 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Other - Diseases
I wouldn't get turned off becuase if that was the deal with my boyfriend i always tell him ill always love him no matter what,and he knows that,and why can't everyone understand that.
2006-12-07 04:31:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what yo are talking about. I am in a loving relationship, so it isn't a big deal. You could also use one of those absorbant matress protector sheets, if you just dribble.
Also have you been doing keegels. They just aren't for pregnant women.
You tighten the pelvic floor muscles, hold for 4-5 secs release.Repeat this for a set of 10 does this 6-10 times daily.
Also when you pee try to stop the stream of urine just for a moment, then repeat again about 3-5 times each time you go to the bathroom. It will take time like months but after 2-3 months you should notice a difference.
Also avoid drinking after 6 pm especially anything with alcohol or caffeine, these are diuretics and will cause bladder stimulation. If they aren't in your system you won't have as much trouble at night.
2006-12-07 12:30:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well of course is not ideal but if I would meet someone and start dating him and then he tells me that and I really like him or have fallen in love well, I will overlook it. Like your saying it's only at night when he sleeps then it shouldn't be much of a problem to me.
Maybe if you would tell me right upfront like when we are on the first date to be honest I would probably be turned off because since I'm not yet involved with you theres no feelings there and I would probably feel like why get into it it's not very appealing
But like I said if I found out after I have feelings It wouldn't affect me in a huge way.
2006-12-07 12:31:27 · answer #3 · answered by calimexgirl!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had bladder problems when I was younger and had surgery, and medication. I have to be real careful to this day what I drink late at night. It's a part of life and we all have our own differences. There is no need to feel ashamed. Good luck and God Bless!
2006-12-07 13:43:13 · answer #4 · answered by Yahoo Answerer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first off, I must say that sucks but it happens and there are a lot worse things out there.
It would take some getting used to and would be a bit of a turnoff-at first-but if they really like you it shouldn't matter. Love is blind to these things and if the person really likes you it won't matter.
2006-12-07 12:26:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since it's just a condition they shouldn't care. Now if you just wanted to wear them at night for the hell of it then I'd say there's something wrong.
2006-12-07 12:25:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is definitely different than anything i ve known so far, but if the person dating you really likes you, they will understand. A real connection with somebody is only established beyond the way they look.
2006-12-07 12:26:31 · answer #7 · answered by piksy_rose1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i absolutely do not feel this is hard to handle. Everyone has things they find "embarassing," however this is a medical necessity. Noone should have a problem with this. I feel for you. And if this happened to my man, id stand behind him 100%. :)
2006-12-07 12:25:45 · answer #8 · answered by heretohelp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a turn-off. There are a great many more difficult conditions to be afflicted by,,:-)=
2006-12-07 12:32:02 · answer #9 · answered by Jcontrols 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's turn off sorry to hear about your condition.
2006-12-07 12:25:39 · answer #10 · answered by sarabmw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋