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ok so this is my first date EVER and i am nervous my friend told me to just get a salad and bread and my mom told me to get what i want like burger not to be fake just to act like me what should i do?

2006-12-07 04:21:36 · 23 answers · asked by lizzie_08 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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It doesn't matter what you decided to order. your date will not judge you for what you eat or how you eat it. He asked you out because he likes you. He wants to get to know you better. Ask yourself this, Will you judge him for what he orders and how he eats it? I doubt it. What would you order if you went with some friends. Order what you want eat as much as you want. be yourself. I know you dont htink so now but mom is always right. I didnt think so when i was young but i know better now. good luck. remember to have fun and be yourself.

2006-12-07 04:33:14 · answer #1 · answered by Heather 3 · 0 1

Order whatever you want. Eating a salad and bread will make the guy think you are crazy. Eating what you want will show him that you really are as cool as he thought you were and he will feel WAY more comfortable with you. Being fake will just create akwardness in you and he will feel that something is off. Enjoy the date, have fun, laugh..Good luck

2006-12-07 12:25:15 · answer #2 · answered by Little anionyx 3 · 1 1

We dress up, we cover ourselves in fragrances, and we tend to be very aware of the things we say and do when among those we have an interst in. Its ok to be nervous...perfectly normal. My recommendation among many is just to try and be yourself and have fun. If you want a hamburger and fries, then get it. However, if you feel a salad would be a better choice for the date night then go for it. Heres the cool thing, its ALL up to you. Regardless of what we say here, you have a choice to make it a successful date or a not so successful date. Everything will be just fine. Relax and have fun.

2006-12-07 12:33:15 · answer #3 · answered by Goober W 4 · 0 1

Do not do the water and salad thing. Its ridiculous. Get what you want. The only advice I have is dont get the most expensive thing. Be realistic. Be kind to the mans wallet but that dosent mean getting a side salad. If you really love salad then get a special one.

2006-12-07 12:28:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

Try your best to just do what you would do if you were not on a date. If you like a sandwich, get one. Do your guy a favor and don't intentionally order the most expensive thing on the menu. And if you are sometimes a messy eater and easily embarrassed, then avoid things that are easy to spill on yourself, like soup or pasta with a lot of sauce, or even a sandwich that has 100 toppings and melted cheese. Something you eat with a knife and fork makes it easy for you to look poised even if you are nervous.

Have fun! He's probably as anxious as you...bet he has butterflies too!

2006-12-07 12:26:29 · answer #5 · answered by newbie 4 · 1 1

Get a burger. A lot of guys don't like that typical girl BS. I get pasta or sandwhiches and yeah okay sometimes I do get a salad but that is for different reasons. If you truely are that uncomfortable a sandwhich is easy or a wrap. ;-)

2006-12-07 12:25:19 · answer #6 · answered by M&M 2 · 1 1

order what ever you want your mom is right don't be fake he wants to get to know you not some salad eating rabbit have fun

2006-12-07 12:24:09 · answer #7 · answered by charlie 2 · 1 0

I'd get whatever you want. If you want a burger then get one. If you want a salad, then get a salad. Especially if he's paying. If he likes you then he wants you to be happy, so that gives you enough of an excuse to get what you want.

2006-12-07 12:27:15 · answer #8 · answered by packerswes4 5 · 1 1

Get something easy to eat. Salads can be difficult and burgers can be drippy. Order something you can eat with a knife and fork.

2006-12-07 12:24:19 · answer #9 · answered by kramerdnewf 6 · 1 0

If you want to have good healthy relationships and find a person who will be a good match for you, you have to be yourself. Don't try to be too cool or like someone that you are not. Be yourself and order what you feel like, this might even trigger some good conversation about what both of you like to eat.

2006-12-07 12:27:23 · answer #10 · answered by Johnny Chingas 1 · 1 1

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