What reassures you? What makes you feel good? wanted? loved? desired?
2006-12-07 04:18:23 · 26 answers · asked by Girl of Spirit 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am talking on a level beyond just sex guys... I want to know about the real things that make a guy feel worthy!!
2006-12-07 04:21:29 · update #1
Sex is about mutual physical and mental stimulation!! Not just about a mans needs, how many of you men stopped and actually thought if you were making the woman fully satisfied. Did you ask her? Do you truly know what you are doing? What signs do you know that she has been satisfied?? the person knows who this is directed to.... thanks to all the other guys for answering my question.
2006-12-07 04:39:13 · update #2
A woman who is interested in what you say. Someone who is tactile and who looks at you when she talks. Says 'I love you' and wants to be with me by making an effort to understand that it's not always easy for a man to stop thinking about work. Understand as a man should that each others sex drive and ideal times don't always match. Just being kind and warm really
2006-12-07 04:30:13 · answer #1 · answered by Pagan Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all part of a global package, not just one thing. You need to be in a good job of your own, in good health, good psychological state...then only can you begin to appreciate being loved, and returning that love. The more you excel with your body image, your career and the more friends and loved ones you gather around you, the better you will feel, and the more you will feel all of those things you mentioned.
2006-12-07 04:36:48 · answer #2 · answered by Rhythm * 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have to say being touched spontaneously when its not expected like on the arm or back. the look in your eyes can say a lot and love can be seen through them. even just holding hands whilst shopping makes that small difference we generally just need reassurance
2006-12-07 04:43:37 · answer #3 · answered by I CAN BUT TRY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
reassuring/feeling good: Knowing that she trusts me completely as i do trust her and that she loves me for who i am, as i do love her. Also her asking me for advice on things
wanted/desired/loved: - the smile on her face when she invites me to stay over. This means going to bed & more importantly waking up together, no guarantee for sex. - a little touch in passing, just a look which melts me inside. - cuddling up on the couch, ignoring the kids and just hold each other
2006-12-07 04:55:54 · answer #4 · answered by Blind Wing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect and obedience. Love is rather fickle and often comes with with a clingyness that I find very oppressive. For this reason I prefer a happily married woman as she is not in a position to try and take over a her lover's life.
2006-12-07 04:25:44 · answer #5 · answered by Clive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So your saying there is a level beyond Sex! Interesting theory Darlin'.
2006-12-07 04:33:18 · answer #6 · answered by ANTJOHN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think just little things personally is better rather than saying i love you all the time, try just the occasional glance at him and just touching him now and again like on the arm or shoulder. simple thigns work really well for me
2006-12-07 04:25:23 · answer #7 · answered by Daniel_Son_Bonsai 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regular BJs, no doubt. Also being a good cook and doing it often. All a man needs.
2006-12-07 17:03:03 · answer #8 · answered by gfking 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
might be just me but we like to be told that were loved as well as u girls. hugs are good to unless its just me. it used to make me feel loved when one of my ex,s (who was gorgeous) used to turn all the guys heads in a club/bar then she,d walk over 2 me & throw her arms around me & plant kisses on me! i felt like the most luckiest guy around as u could see the looks of envy from all the other guys lol
2006-12-07 04:28:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A genuine smile, a smile says 1000 words.
2006-12-07 04:25:01 · answer #10 · answered by NM 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋