is listening to you gut always the best solution?

Question

Ive been in a so called relationship with a man for 2 years now. but the funny thing about is I think he having late night makeout session with the lesbian in the next room that's sharing the space with us and the owner of the place. I have look my friend in the eye and have asked him severe times to just come clean. He tells me that im just being scared and that the girl is Terrified of me I keep trying to believe him because during the two he has prove to me that he very honest .but my instincts seem to say something different
what do you guys think.? Should I listen to my instincts as a warning or put them to rest and snapout of it.

Answer 1

I have doubted my gut several times and found out it was right! ALWAYS trust your gut! Don't let someone else alter your reality.

Answer 2

Have you been cheated on before? If he has proven to be honest in the past, I think you need to give him the benefit of the doubt. If you have been cheated on before, it's very understandable that you are afraid of it happening to you again. I think you need to make a journal and write down why you think he's cheating on you, why your fear is so deep, and what you and he can do together to change your feelings. Try not to push him too hard, cause he will feel the distrust you have for him and it's not healthy. Once you have figured why you feel the way you do, sit and talk it through with him. If you don't think you can get beyond your feelings, then I think you need to consider a break from him. I feel your gut knows best, but understanding it isn't always easy. Anyway, I hope this helps.

Answer 3

well i always say listen to your gut. mine has never failed acctually im going through tthe ame sort of thing right now. my gut told me somthing was wrong. so i investigated a bit and found out i was right. your insticts are there for a reason listen to them. if thats not enough for you find the proof you need to back it up. confront him on the sittuation tell him you know if you really dont. try and get the reaction your looking for from him. set him up. have a friend pick you up. the 2 of you can make up somthing about a party or event you are going to. make sure other people know about it so he thinks its really happening tell them you will be back at a certain time and come home supper early to see what there up to. any thing out of the ordanary might answer your question. good luck

Answer 4

well if yor gut is telling you something, you should 9 out of 10 times listen because your first thought is your best thought. if he cant be honest about staying on the boat, maybe he isnt worth the ride.

Answer 5

Follow your gut not your heart,You can always trust your instinct but sometimes our hearts get in the way.

Answer 6

Usually.

Answer 7

Whether your "gut" is right or not, if you've got trust issues then your relationship is not where it should be. You need to fix that one way or another (learn to trust him or move on), otherwise you're just torturing yourself for no good reason.

Answer 8

Your gut is usually right on target.
If you want to go a step further, you will have to try and catch them in the act.
If your gut is right, dump the loser and move on.

Answer 9

well sometimes womens instict are not right all the time. Us as women usually get paranoid, especially when you are in a relationship. You need to trust him in order for it to work, not unless he is giving you reasons not to trust him.

Answer 10

HIdden Camera come to mind!
Sorry to be negative but when it comes to men..they always seem to answer the door with the right knock!