I found some mothers spying their children. Is it OK? Do you do it?
2006-12-07 04:15:00 · 14 answers · asked by Sky Boy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
no thats wrong unles they ar hiding something from you
2006-12-07 04:19:33 · answer #1 · answered by Michael D 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
There's obviously a trust issue. Me personally, I would never spy on my family. The only time I'd spy on my family is if I knew they were in danger. If there's no reason to do so, DON'T do it. It could cause bad friction in your family.
2006-12-07 06:00:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents have this right.
As children get older and prove themselves trustworthy, parents should show respect by spying less. But, since parents are responsible for the child's well-being, they need to know what is going on.
Myself, I think I was too trusting of my daughter, to her detriment.
2006-12-07 04:23:39 · answer #3 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the circumstances if the mother thinks the child is in danger then yes they should but they should try talking to there child first. If it is the mother being noisy then that is wrong they need space and independent and most children will talk to there mother when they are ready.
2006-12-07 05:44:33 · answer #4 · answered by rachrara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sky Hello,
When my children were younger and they went to the park on their own for the first time, I admit to checking on them when they didn't know. Mums are like sheep dogs. We like everyone safe and together. However we also know that for the good health of the children we must let go. But we still worry and we still give in now and again to feelings of protection and a touch of mad cow disease.
2006-12-07 06:19:37 · answer #5 · answered by : 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spying no! keeping up to date with what you child is doing yes! i would like to think i have a good open relationship with my son if i ever thought he was lying to me i would come down on him so hard he wouldn't now what day of the week it is! as a parent you want the best for your kids and there are so many thing to worry about like drugs and teenage pregnancy its so easy for them to choose the wrong path in life! as for the rest of my family its up to them what they get up to! unless they where under 18 and i would think of it as my responsability to inform there parents if i new somethink was going on they should now about.
2006-12-07 05:03:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could careless about what my family members are up to these days. I know this might sound selfish, but I care about what I'm doing and don't focus and worry about what everyone else is doing-especially my family.
2006-12-07 04:46:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't spy on my kids...yet!They're too young to be up to anything but i can guarantee that i will in the future hehe!
2006-12-07 04:54:22 · answer #8 · answered by twinkle 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no...i would never spy on my kids...hey are old enough to do what they like now and have nothing to hide
2006-12-07 05:22:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's no longer this variety of success with the lads eh? tell her the way it relatively is. additionally, she could be prepared to look out for youthful sis... tell her to F*CK OFF! I advise it... If she nevertheless bothers you, ask her to get her very own life and to determine you for help with boys. no longer undercover agent and see what your doing.
2016-10-14 05:16:41 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
twinkle just spys on me!
2006-12-07 06:19:26 · answer #11 · answered by Barson 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋