They are snatched by women who appreciated them and turned them into husbands.
I have many female friends who said good guys extinct but I think the fact is that when they did show their interest in them, the gals just hesitate and back off.
I guess the main point is that gals always think they have the luxury of time to wait for the ideal man and miss out the many good opportunities presented infront of them again and again.
in the end, when most of their friends are married and have kids they are still waiting. hmm by then they are already towards their mid 30s.
what do u think?
2006-12-07 04:12:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Touche`!
2006-12-07 04:17:03 · answer #1 · answered by mrd1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that a lot of women are over protective and think that when they see a “good guy” that they are putting up a front like most of the “bad boys” just to get what they want. It is hard to tell these days. I know that I have a protective wall up because I have been in relationships where I thought the guys was awesome just to find out that they were totally the opposite. So I would be among the girls who wouldn’t know because there is so much deceit out there and you can’t really tell who is a “good guy” and who is a “bad boy”. You want someone who is the same from the beginning to the end, not someone who changes after marriage or when there are tired of waiting. And after all of that you have wasted a considerable amount of your time and energy in something that was so completely pointless. So yeah, in the mist of it all I think I would shrug off Mr. Nice, or Mr. Sincere because you just never know.
2006-12-07 12:24:09 · answer #2 · answered by Tri-trippin-Nelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok jason, I in my past dated many men who always thought they were just so wonderful but the fact is if they were so wonderful they wouldnt have been single. Alot of women dont want to settle down prior to their 30s and really they dont have to. I do think that most of the good men are either married or gay {ive got a married one btw}. I do know that alot of what were good guys have turned into jack a-sses because of the actions of some woman. Thats what I think
2006-12-07 12:18:36 · answer #3 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there are plenty of good guys are out there. Yes, some of them are married, but just wait 4 out of 10 marriages fail in the first five years so they'll be available again! lol
2006-12-07 12:15:53 · answer #4 · answered by niknac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you. But then again its also the guys fault because when a guy likes a girl he should be clear about his intentions and not become his best friend first.
Its called flirting and its in everyone. You like someone, go for it. You get turn down, you learn from your mistakes and move on to the next one. You do what you need to do to stop looking like a kid/dork/nerd/unattractive.
2006-12-07 12:20:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that some people always want what they can't have.
They may have craved a "good guy" in the past, got him and found that the novelty had worn off...........or that they found they just weren't interested.
The grass is very rarely greener and some rue the day they turned people "with potential" away.
2006-12-07 12:18:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Point the good guys to the ladies.
2006-12-07 12:16:11 · answer #7 · answered by elgil 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
~I believe they are out there as well. I also think a lot of them are married too.~
2006-12-07 12:21:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you, but there's still got to be some out there...
don't burst my bubble !!
2006-12-07 12:15:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so naive. "Good" guys are all around you, you're just too proud to admit that you don't find them attractive.
2006-12-07 12:15:49 · answer #10 · answered by Axel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋