without hurting her feelings,plz help???
2006-12-07 04:01:17 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be honest. You can't avoid hurting her feelings, but you can be gentle and tell the truth.
2006-12-07 04:02:56 · answer #1 · answered by eilishaa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is attached the avoidance of hurt feelings may not be possible; but it has been my experience that a kind, honest, and direct approach has proven the test of time. The transition from significant other to friend need not be the end of everything ... but sometimes it is.
2006-12-07 12:04:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok a womens emotion is very fragile dont start off mad or quite because she's probubly gonna be wondering why act happy glad to be alive but not too happy so it'll be creepy or you're glad she's gone. also say it to her face when you do it,camly and not infront of a whole lot of people do it at your house. so when she gets mad she can walk out instead of her saying to get out of her house. and also tell her the reason bucause they want to know,also give back all the stuff she gave to you but one at a time not all at once or she'll think you dont want it. act like your attached to whatever she gave you and lastly be her friend girls value a good guy friend than a good boy friend
2006-12-07 12:11:42 · answer #3 · answered by Jaarme J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call. Chicks hate this but I find it to be the least confrontational of all break up plans.
And sorry but that aint no way to break up with out someone getting their feelings hurt.
2006-12-07 12:04:04 · answer #4 · answered by dj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your going to hurt her. There's no way around that part of braking up. The best thing you can do is be honest with her about your feelings.
2006-12-07 12:05:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't tell you without hurting her feelings, so be honest don't try to patronize she may be angry but in the long run at least she will respect you.
2006-12-07 12:06:09 · answer #6 · answered by Ans 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her straight out. The longer you Wait the more it's going to hurt her. If you cared for her at all you will show her enough respect and tell her to her face and do it quickly.
2006-12-07 12:04:25 · answer #7 · answered by Castle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never break her by saying harshly, talk her come close to her, be friendly, make her understand that you are still there and not leaving her to her fate. behave like a friend express yourself and then say taht things would not be possible, do not hurt her
2006-12-07 12:03:09 · answer #8 · answered by James_Bond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will probably be upset. But if you made up your mine it's best to get it over with, show class, compassion and see if there might be a chance that the both of you may remain on friendly terms. It's in her best interest as well to be with someone who wants to be with her and you obviously want out.
Honesty is best. just be kind and gentle.
good luck to you both.
2006-12-07 12:06:27 · answer #9 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be an a** like my ex........all women want is the truth! Dont abondon her, and do all these things to make her hate you.......be there for her as a friend even after the break up........just dont give mixed signals...oh how I wish mine did that for me...
2006-12-07 12:05:04 · answer #10 · answered by confusedbrowngirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋