my bf will barley talk to me know. i asked him where our relatonship was going and he said that he dont know but its not working. but he still is going to be with me . what dose this mean.
2006-12-07 04:00:17 · 26 answers · asked by aleisha21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first, two words: Spell checker.
if he thinks that the relationship is not working and (I'm getting the feeling by your post that) he is not willing to make it work, then leave him. Time to move on and find someone who wants a relationship and is willing to work at it.
2006-12-07 04:06:08 · answer #1 · answered by David 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He said "its not working" thats usually not a great sign. to me he sounds a little confused mayeb he's not sure what he is feeling. give him some time to think about the releationship. I think that you also need to think about your releationship. your the one that asked him were your releationship is going. maybe you yourself are a little confused as to how you feel. I think it might be a good idea to sit and talk to each other tell him how you feel have him telly uo how he feels. If you can't talk to him thats not a releationship you want. maybe take a break dont call him for a few days and see what happens. I think that if the two of you want this to work out it will work out. only if you want it to work though. good luck.
2006-12-07 04:21:15 · answer #2 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask yourself what it is you want from a relationship. Obviously, what he wants/needs from a relationship he feels he doesn't have in this one. I don't know the details of your relationship, but you two need to talk and see what you expect from this relationship and each other. And work on it from there. If it is meant to be it will work out, if it is not then the one for you will eventually come around.
2006-12-07 04:05:32 · answer #3 · answered by givelife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's hanging on to you until he finds something better or so he thinks. You're the fall back gal. Start looking for a new bf don't waste time with boys who don't know what they want. Find a man that knows what he wants and is able to communicate it to you.
2006-12-07 04:06:48 · answer #4 · answered by KUZIKAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can't afford to buy you a christmas present so he's going to break it off right before the holiday and then get back in January. lol No for real, he is definitly confused and if you love him, you have to wait, if your tired of his bull ish, move on! There is always someone out there who will appreciate your worth!
2006-12-07 04:06:02 · answer #5 · answered by niknac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A point comes in your relationship where you feel the relationship becomes stagnant...thats what maybe happening to him so he needs to reaasure him you are the one for him...give him extra care and attention but at the same time give him some space to miss you...he has to come to terms that he still likes you...
2006-12-07 04:03:52 · answer #6 · answered by jewel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he's a jerk. He is staying with you because he wants the benefits of a gf but not the responsibility of a relationship. Sweetie you are better off without him. I have dated guys like him
and they don't change. It only gets worse.
2006-12-07 04:06:45 · answer #7 · answered by askywalkersmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean that it's not working for you anymore.......and if that is the case then tell him to get it together or your going to bounce. Tell him your bored with the way things are and if he is too immature to understand then definitely shake the spot. And smile when you do cause better things are waiting!!
2006-12-07 04:07:43 · answer #8 · answered by Hot one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say that he is keeping you around until he finds a replacement, or that he is unsure of where he wants the realtionship to go and that he doesn't want to lose you until he figures that out.
I would say if you really care for him that you need to communicate how you feel and tell him that it is important for you to know where you stand.
2006-12-07 04:06:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened to my mate, she talked to him and said that she wasnt getting enough attention and he barely saw her any more. She said that she thought it was time to break up because they werent acting together any more and he understood and now they dont hate each other, and are pretty much on speaking terms.
2006-12-07 04:09:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋