four brothors, two sisters and a horde of chaos
2006-12-07 03:58:15 · 9 answers · asked by terran mech boss 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
what!!! lol! and I thought I had it bad with 5 siblings (add an identical twin!)
You just have to love them for their different attributes and personalities :)
Just think of your life as a sitcom lol! you'll find everything more humourous! We compare our christmas to "malcolm in the middle" meets "the huxtables" lol!
Besides, all those memories make for great stories when you're older! cause I can honestly say that my childhood was the best days of my life :)
Just learn to laugh...
Good luck!
2006-12-07 04:08:11 · answer #1 · answered by venom! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel you. I am the oldest of six kids. One boy and four girls. It is complete chaos. And, I have had so much responsibility since I was only four years old. It's a little frustrating. But, what i've figured out.... is that it is as simple as learning some patience. Patience and tolerance has made my life so much easier. Of course, along with the love I have for them all. My relationship with my siblings has gotten so much better and more postive and fun since I did that. And, I love them to death... they are my life. So, try and do that. I promise it will help.
Also, make sure you schedule some time for yourself. Go out with a friend or something. That also helps. Sometimes you just need a break.
And, I know it seems crazy, but if they were gone... you really would miss them. You learn to appreciate the excitement and variety.
Good luck!
2006-12-07 12:04:28 · answer #2 · answered by shortnspunky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hello there mister. well i cant say ive been there but i can see where youre coming from. i only have 2 siblings and sometimes you have to find yourself a quiet place and maybe pray. i know some people say praying doesn't help but it really does. God answers pray not when you want him to but he will do it just in time. you cant lose your temper and go off throwing things and cursing because that will make things worse. try to conversate with your siblings and ask them to talk to you when theyre having problems and get on that brotherly sisterly status and they will understand all what youre going through and make it a little less hard on you.
2006-12-07 12:04:10 · answer #3 · answered by ya_gurl_manda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oldest of 8 here... I dont know what number you are in the line-up but the bottom line is be part of the big exciting family but also be your own person. You aren't just kid number whatever. You are a person and others will see you for who you are not what your family is or isn't. Enjoy life. Just be you...
2006-12-07 12:04:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to love your family because when you get older they may need your help or you theirs. I have 9 siblings and learned that family members can be friends too.
2006-12-07 12:05:00 · answer #5 · answered by larlonewolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a cozy closet, a flashlight and a book.
2006-12-07 12:04:04 · answer #6 · answered by moobiemuffin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move in w/ a friend. jk
find a place thats just urs, someplace quiet
2006-12-07 12:02:12 · answer #7 · answered by neverland22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont' look for instent gradifaction!
look at the big photo!
:)
should help a little bit!
2006-12-07 12:01:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Murder the others
2006-12-07 12:09:12 · answer #9 · answered by burtbb0912 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋