iv been with my booboo bear for almost two years and i wondering how could i keep him sill in love with me. we are very happy and i wanted to know how to keep him that way?
2006-12-07 03:57:46 · 19 answers · asked by lizz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
things will change; either slightly or a lot because people in the relationship change. They grow up or one of them does and the other doesnt...they have 'outside' influences and their personality will change according to those.....
always communicate. Communication/Trust is the foundation of a relationship. Always ask "how was your day?" and things like that. Keep things playful, light and fun. Remember how it was when you 2 first met...what did you do then? how did you act?
Relationships tend to go bad when people stop talking/asking...and start assuming. NEVER ASSUME ANYTHING. Never let him assume you love him...tell him...everyday.
Im sure you two will be fine.
Good Luck.
2006-12-07 04:05:50 · answer #1 · answered by da_nikkster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If everything's great, why are you insecure? Just relax, and enjoy this time you have! The important thing in a relationship is that you maintain honest, open communication. If things start going bad, then you'll be able to talk about it, and hopefully work through it.
The most important thing when you're afraid of losing someone is to not hold onto them too tightly. If you feel a gap forming, don't run after him and try to force him to feel the way he did. It will just push him away more. It could be it was just a temporary thing and he just needed some space.
Sometimes we don't want things to end, but we don't have control of other people. The best thing to do is continue being yourself and put your guy first in the relationship and hope for the best. If it ends, it does, and you don't have worry about it now. You'll figure it out then.
2006-12-07 12:11:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keeping your significant other happy or interested is the hardest part of a relationship. But if you think about it, It is totally up to the other person on what makes him happy and interested. No matter how happy you guys are now, everybody changes. It could be for the better or it could be for the worse. Love is a gamble that we all play. It's up to you how you handle the cards you are delt. That's just life.
2006-12-07 12:16:10 · answer #3 · answered by Johnny S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is the nature of relationships to evolve. What may appear to be a lack of interest may simply be him in a comfort zone, a level of satisfaction he has not before felt.
Most of the world's problems, serious problems, arise because someone thought too much or anticipated the worst and acted on it before there was anything real to worry about.
If you stress about his happiness, he's going to think you are a basket case and he will be right. Then, he will leave because men like to be comfortable. A woman stressing or fidgeting or trying to change things up is a big red flag to guys so just cool your jets. Men are pretty up front about their needs and their feelings. Women are the secretive ones.
Chill.
2006-12-07 12:07:28 · answer #4 · answered by Liligirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same way you meant him is the say way you stay. you see when we get a man we tend to get comfortable as far as our looks go . and sometimes our weight and the way we keep up with things that make us look attractive. i say keep putting on those sexy outfits even if your in the house. put on a pair of sexy underwear , or give him a strip show for know reason ladies you have to keep the spice all the time and never ever get bored and stop looking like the house wife form hell . if you want to keep your man you have to work at it and it's a full time job . if you need any more advice i have tons of idea's just look me up at DIVASTYLES@yahoogroups.com i can really tell you how to keep the spice. lol
2006-12-07 12:06:36 · answer #5 · answered by sexyswells42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been married for almost 5 months and the key to me and my wife's relationship is making sure we are both happy.
First of all you need to make sure that you are happy. I broke up with my ex-girlfriend after two years, because she was constantly relying on me to be and do everything for or with her.
After two years, you've established the fact that you're a couple, now it's time to establish your needs in a relationship, goals for your future and his future, most of all the future of the relationship.
But all at the same time, give him the space he needs and give yourself space, because as much as you love being together, you are still individuals.
peace, love
-nick
2006-12-07 12:05:45 · answer #6 · answered by Cholas 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you keep offering him food and sex, he'll stay until he finds someone better. Most guys are lazy that way. Women want a relationship that makes them feel good. men will settle for one that doesn't make them feel bad. If he hasn't asked you to marry him, he's keeping his options open.
2006-12-07 12:01:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anne Jovie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you and "booboo bear" are happy keep doing what your doing.
2006-12-07 11:59:53 · answer #8 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Great sex, and try experimenting,
I don't mean, craziness, just make sure you always save some for later,
never give it all away, little by little introduce new things, so you can always have the excitement and passion.
2006-12-07 12:01:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep doing what youve been doing for the two years you guys have been together.. have an open relationship that is verbal & trusting & dont try to change/control him b/c you think you have that right after being together so long.
2006-12-07 12:02:14 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋