my mum and dad have split up and i have to chose who to live with all of my stuff is in my dad's flat also i will get my own room in there otherwise i have to share my dad and my sister painted the my favourite colour in the room.
also i've been with my mum for 13 years and it's hard for me to say goodbye.
my dad lives about 6 doors along.
help!!!!!!!!!
pinky xxxxxxxxx
2006-12-07 03:57:25 · 11 answers · asked by danni 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Stay with who u feel comfortable living with. Who do u have a stronger relationship with?! If its only six doors down than stay with your mom who has been there for u and u know the living stituation there. Good Luck sweetie! Do a pro and cons list for yourself
2006-12-07 04:11:38 · answer #1 · answered by smile114 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you split the week in half.Spend the first half of the week with your dad / mum,then spend the rest with the other.
You don't have to say goodbye to either of them that way.Ask your parents what they think to the idea.
2006-12-07 04:06:03 · answer #2 · answered by nicky dakiamadnat600bugmunchsqig 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey...if you have a room at your mums you could always divide your time between both parents....keep some stuff at your dads, and some at your mums...lol 6 doors along is not far doll.....you'll see both of them all the time....enjoy having 2 homes...it will be fun....
2006-12-07 05:57:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a question any one can answer for you. When making your choice just keep in mind that both of your parents love you very much and they wont think any less of you for the choice you make. Best of luck.
2006-12-07 04:01:54 · answer #4 · answered by Castle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay with your mom....you said yourself you have been with her for 13yrs....it doesnt matter that your dad has made a room for you. he would have to anyway when you stay with him.
sounds like you might be closer to your mom and if your dad is only 6 "doors" down....you wont be far and i dont think your parents would stop from seeing the other parent.
2006-12-07 04:03:38 · answer #5 · answered by Get_R_Done_n_Dallas 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay with your mum ,you have been with her the longest , and if your dad is only 6 door's down you will see him on a regular basis .
2006-12-07 09:19:50 · answer #6 · answered by MILLION DOLLAR QUESTION 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it is so hard for you then just take turns! stay one year somewhere and another somewhere else!
I mean it's your choice! who do you want to live with? and just because you pick someone don't mean you don't love the one you didn't pick more or less!
just need a change and want to do something different! and there is nothing wrong with that
2006-12-07 04:03:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Alot of factors play into this... Go live with grandma that way you dont have to choose one or the other..
2006-12-07 04:02:33 · answer #8 · answered by drockfreak 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Aarrrrrrr sweetie I'm sorry to hear that but only you can answer that question.
Good luck!
2006-12-07 04:02:51 · answer #9 · answered by cheetarrz 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think that this is only a question you can answer hun - just wanted to say good luck with whatever you decide :-)
2006-12-07 04:04:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋