My boyfriend and I had sex one day like 4 times then the next day like in the morning he couldnt get hard...i thought it was a one time thing or maybe it was me not turning him on but i tried everything and he said it wasnt. So the next day the same thing happened?...I dont understand why it did?...Does anyone know and i hope its not me?....usually we would start kissing and he would be hard but i did everything and it wasnt
p.s. now it is back to normal but i dont wnat it to happen again was it just a stage or waht?
2006-12-07 03:55:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is pretty normal. Men are wired very differently to us women. The fact that he had sex 4 times earlier has a lot to do with it. While we can have orgasm after orgasm and keep going, but men on the other hand, after a few times, need to rest. His inability to have an erection then has nothing to do with his attraction to you at all, but it's a physical 'limitation' for want of a better word of our men. So don't sweat it.
2006-12-07 04:15:37 · answer #1 · answered by foxiee_chic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting scenario. I wouldn't say that it was YOU who prevented him from getting an erection. I would say that it was because of the 4 times that you and he had sex. In these 4 times, did he have an orgasm everytime? Learn about the male anatomy and what happens to a mans body when he orgasms and you will discover a number of things. I would reccommend taking it easy and enjoying eachothers bodies more before sexual intercourse. Four play is a must in all relationships.
2006-12-07 04:05:55 · answer #2 · answered by Goober W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is normal. All men regardless if they want to admit it or not have gone through or will go through what happened to you and your bf. Just like at some point in your life no matter how turned on you will be you wont be able to get moist.
2006-12-07 03:58:38 · answer #3 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was probably just because of the fact you did it 4x in a day. Now if it happens again, and you didn't do that many times, then I'd be curious.
2006-12-07 03:58:45 · answer #4 · answered by Cait 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats the problem with guys. Once they reach climax, their done for awhile. With women, we can go on and on for hours and reach climax several times and be ready to go again shortly afterwards. So dont worry, its not you. Its just a guy thing.
2006-12-07 03:58:02 · answer #5 · answered by PfcsBaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, 4 times in one day. I think maybe he was just "spent" ! Don't worry 2 much.
2006-12-07 04:00:27 · answer #6 · answered by Goddessgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you do it 4 times in a day, its probably normal for that to happen, so dont sweat it!
2006-12-07 03:57:14 · answer #7 · answered by Brian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it...guys sometimes need some extra time after going that many times.
2006-12-07 03:59:25 · answer #8 · answered by joker:P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT'S A LITTLE HARDER FOR GUYS TO GO AND GO LIKE WE DO I SAY CUT IT DOWN TO MAYBE TWICE A DAY I DON'T THINK IT HAS ANYTHING TO DO WITH YOU AND I'M SURE HE'S TOLD YOU THAT GIVE HIM A CHANCE TO GET THE JUICES FLOWING AGAIN.
2006-12-07 03:59:24 · answer #9 · answered by sky g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Over used. It's NORMAL.
2006-12-07 04:00:36 · answer #10 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋