Well me and my boyfriend are young. He wants to move out here in January I want him to and everything but i think thats a big step for us. Im kind of scared. It might be to soon. But I think will be fine and it will be good for the both of us but. How Do you know if its too soon???
2006-12-07 03:52:47 · 7 answers · asked by lost_in_love_still 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the only thing i can think of is talk to him about it. if that is what both of you want. If you have doubts that its too soon tell him that be honest with him. I hate to see him move out here and then you two don't get along. its a big step. both of you have to agree to it . or it won't work out.
2006-12-07 03:57:34 · answer #1 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really, depends on how long you've been together. They say, people don't get to know their partners real side, until after they've exited the honeymoon stage of the relationship. That amount of time, is different, for everyone. Sometimes it's 8 months, sometimes it's 1 1/2 years. If you've been in a long distance relationship...the honeymoon stage can last longer than that.
A few things to think about:
How well do you fight? Do you scream and argue, or do you attempt to maintain a level head, and talk things out?
Can you be in the same home, doing different things and be happy about it? (one of you watching tv in living room, the other reading a magazine in the bedroom, without it being weird)
Can you both take responsibility for the needs of the relationship? (ie. share cleaning, laundry, bills, etc)
How do you know if it's too soon? You don't. There's no set amount of time..it's different for everyone. I hope some of the questions above, help you to answer your question.
Good luck
mj
2006-12-07 12:02:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking questions like this ....it is definitely too soon. Living together is a big step especially when coupled with a relocation. Move out alone....get yourself established and enjoy yourself for a while. Consider it again 2 months after the move.
2006-12-07 11:56:49 · answer #3 · answered by ishootpix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NNNNNNNNNNNOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Don't do it if anything help him find a place where you and him can go to moving in with a guy is a huge step and can cause alot of problems you won't see now but trust me it's soon to come
2006-12-07 11:57:16 · answer #4 · answered by Toni H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move to your same town? OR move IN with you?? Dont let him move in with you. If you dont know if its too soon, then its definitely too soon. Wait till you KNOW you want to get married. blessings.
2006-12-07 11:56:49 · answer #5 · answered by cheese food product 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask yourself the question, then it is too soon. Good luck
2006-12-07 11:57:25 · answer #6 · answered by angie a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say you are scared, you think it may be too soon..there's your answer.
when it's right, you won't be scared.
2006-12-07 11:55:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋