i am friends with benifits with this guy but i like him more lke a bf. how do i tell him i like him more? when ever i am around him i get butterflies in my stomach i think about him alll the time. hes the first thing i think of when i wake up every morning and hes the last thing i think about when i go to bed! are these sighns of bein in love with him or what? if not then what are the sighns>?
2006-12-07 03:35:21 · 13 answers · asked by britt- britt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're in love with him, alright - at least the love that a 15yr old can comprehend.
The disturbing thing here is that you're sexually active at age 15.
Use protection, at least.
2006-12-07 03:38:24 · answer #1 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No these are not signs of being in love. They are signs that you really like him, maybe are infatuated with him, and that if he feels the same way love could bloom from that.
At your age, it is hard to understand what love is, but you can't really love someone until you have experienced life together. You have to go through ups and downs and thick and thin, and still come out wanting to be together before you can call it love.
I would say just try asking him to spen time with you in public places where you can't fool around together, like shopping, movies,out to eat, parties, etc. If he's not willing to just hang out with you without the perks, he's not interested in anything else, its that simple. If he is, then there's a chance he feels the same. Take it slow and if things go your way, after a few weeks tell him how you feel.
2006-12-07 03:41:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im 14, and my relationship with my bf is beautiful. We hang together, we caress (not necessarily sexually) each other, we know each others parents and we've been together about 6 months. We were friends for about 5 months before he 'asked me out'.
We say we love each other, but im a tad confused, like yourself, on what exactly love is. I think of him day and night, like you, and I love hearing his voice on the phone and most of the other 'signs' that peoples blogs and answers say show youre in love.
I suppose i say dont rush into things. Tell him how you feel, but only if youre sure he wont laugh in youre face, or if you think he likes you back.
Communication is vital.
2006-12-07 04:01:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes that is the signs of love. If I had this guy friend I would say it easy. I would say something like I am going out to the movies with my Sister or maybe even friends and ask if he would like to go with him. If I were you I would eather say that or write him a note telling him how I'm feeling. I know it's very nerve wrecking to tell him after a while but it will make you feel better after you tell him TRUST ME!!
2006-12-07 03:44:49 · answer #4 · answered by Kare Bear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Brit
Congratulations you have fallen on love at a very young age
this is not love this is just infatuation
I dont want to break our heart but you should give some more time to your self
2006-12-07 03:39:44 · answer #5 · answered by coolguy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea you are in love with him, i was watchin this true life ''friends with benifits'' episode and this girl love the guy but he didnot have no feelings for her what so ever. in the end basically he heart was broken and she left him and never talked to him again. my advice for you is to just ask him how he feels and if he does'nt feel anyway just move on====.
2006-12-07 03:42:18 · answer #6 · answered by ANNA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are displaying the most common signs of young love ! Enjoy it- it doesn't last long- but be careful !
2006-12-07 03:39:04 · answer #7 · answered by Isabella B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at 15 it ain't love what you need to be thinking about is school 1st and last. girl get out quickly friends with benefits only hurts you and your to young to go through some thing like this "GO TO SCHOOL LEARN" please don't be a fool
2006-12-07 03:40:11 · answer #8 · answered by mariposa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont tolerate this arrangement...youre way too young for this..see now your heart is hurting. Just tell him...dont know how long this has been happening but if he doesnt love you it wont get better
2006-12-07 03:39:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to tell you hon but it sounds like your in lust not love ...Yet
2006-12-07 03:38:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋