When I see my girlfriend in pain inside i always ask her if there is anything wrong and the answer is always, I'm fine. if i ask again she still says I"M FINE, but i can tell that something is bothering her. I want her to be happy how can i help her when i see her hurting, should i leave her alone hug her talk about it, I am just confused.
2006-12-07 03:26:06 · 10 answers · asked by west17lake 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah well sometimes it all depends.. you know sometimes i think the best thing to do it give her a hug and let her know that you are there for her...and let her come to you..
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2006-12-07 03:30:37 · answer #1 · answered by Awesome girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sometimes we don't like to talk about the problems we have. it's called denial ;) and you can make her feel better: by being there for her without asking her all the time what is wrong. a hug and a "you know, i sure everything will be alright" matters a lot
2006-12-07 11:33:28 · answer #2 · answered by sea_star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it's best to just let us work through it by our selves. If we need some comfort we will ask for it. If you are not sure just a hug and some assurance that you are there if we need you is enough.
2006-12-07 11:30:42 · answer #3 · answered by Sweetness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may not know how to tell you what is hurting her. Just hug her and let her know that you are there for her when she needs to talk. When she is ready to talk, she will let you know. Be patient with her.
2006-12-07 11:30:45 · answer #4 · answered by Scooter 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hug her and ask her. tell her to share all her pains.
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2006-12-07 11:30:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone. You are not helping her by pressing the issue.
If she wanted to talk about it she would and then just by listening.....not talking.....you could help her.
She has a problem that is personal and does not want to share it with just anyone no matter how compassionate you feel you are.
2006-12-07 11:30:35 · answer #6 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
most of the time when we do that is b/c w dont want yall (guys) to worry bout us !! and many women dont like to sho weakness and for yall to think we always need ur help wit every thing!! give her some time and space and she might open up to u
2006-12-07 11:31:21 · answer #7 · answered by Katie B.#23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
comfort her. hug her. kiss her forhead.. try and make her feel better without talking about when she seems fine then try talking about it.
2006-12-07 11:29:33 · answer #8 · answered by CarLee Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her make her feel loved and im sure you already do but make her feel beautiful inside.
2006-12-07 11:30:02 · answer #9 · answered by b4me2u91 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave her alone because she wants you to keep asking so leave her alone if theres something important shell speak up!!
2006-12-07 11:29:32 · answer #10 · answered by Marley's momma 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋