Hi guyz.. the question is how shall i do to make her love me??? ya, it sounds stupid but i really want to know..I met a girl at my work...She is from myanmar and she is a pretty girl.. she always smile and this is the reason why i'm in love with her...and she knows i like her. but the thing is i can't read her mind.. i don't know whether she like me or not..
(PS: we are from different country)
2006-12-07 03:24:54 · 5 answers · asked by helper198607 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't make anyone love you...Love is a choice we make. If you just met her, spend time with her and get to know her. I'm not talking about having sex with her (wait until marriage). But develop and friendship with her and let her know you care about her. But don't force someone to Love you, b/c in the long run you will be setting yourself up for a lot of hurt and pain.
2006-12-07 03:55:03 · answer #1 · answered by unknown 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey man, you got to go after her and stop wasting time. You know what they say, "if you're slow, you blow," so don't blow it. Just tell her how you feel about her. Ask her can you start a relationship with her. That's the only way you're going to find out what she is thinking. We might think we know what a female is thinking but we can be way off base. Many times I've had these feelings for a female and come to find out she's not feeling what I feel at all. It was all in my mind. And sometimes I'm attracted to a woman and I wait too long to let her know how I feel. Because a lot of times they sit back and wait for the man to make the first move. You got to get over being rejected. You got to have a salesman type attitude when it come to finding a date, mate or whatever you're looking for. Just don't give up. Keep looking. One day you will find that special person. She maybe the one. But you will never know if you don't ask.
2006-12-07 11:46:19 · answer #2 · answered by Willie K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be honest with her. You could be giving her all these signs. She still can't see that you like her. I would just have a talk with her. You and her need to get your feelings out on the table. Then, there will be no confusion. Specially, if you two live in different countries. You don't have time to beat around the bush. Long distance relationships can be even harder without communication. I hope this helps!!
2006-12-07 11:39:03 · answer #3 · answered by shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
During a break, ask her to have a snack, coffee, or coke with you. Talk to her. Become her friend first and foremost. Be yourself and she likes you, it will show eventually. Just do not be in such a hurry.
2006-12-07 11:28:23 · answer #4 · answered by Hammer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make anyone love you.
2006-12-07 11:27:28 · answer #5 · answered by wingedgirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋