Theres this one guy who ask me out about twice now to hangout but everytime the day comes, he doesnt call or anything. I call him but no answer. I didnt even bother leaving a message at all. We made plans and he pretty much blew me off. I'm not the one calling to make plans he is. I'm 26 and hes 27 so hes not a kid anymore, but what the hell. I'm not into games at all. Just finally got over a bad breakup about 5 months ago. I'm starting to move on. Just want some input for you guys. Let me know what you think. Thanks!
2006-12-07 03:24:39 · 12 answers · asked by Crazy Heart 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow... that's mean. Tell him to a get life and grow up. He obviously doesn't care, so just ignore him and move on.
2006-12-07 03:26:29 · answer #1 · answered by TheONEJay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen up.
When u make plans with someone and they cannot make it, they must call and cancel. Obviously this individual is quite unstable so from the onset you should not get into this. Stop wasting your time and setting yourself up for endless disappointments.
Try also to go out with your girlfriends and have a nice night out, u meet a lot of new people and you don't have to sit by the phone and get insulted by this jerk.
Go out there and do your own thing.
2006-12-07 11:34:34 · answer #2 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a flake, as are most boy-men who refuse to grow up. Don't pursue him...even though there are plenty of desperate women your age that would. Rise above it and don't be an enabler. Fact probably is that he made a date with you but then got what he felt was a "better option" and went with it. Don't be offended by this, or take it personally. It's his problem not yours. Just let this one go.
2006-12-07 11:29:38 · answer #3 · answered by none 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that his actions now show how he will be in the future....forget him unless you like guys who play games and dont have enough common courtesy to cancel your plans.
2006-12-07 11:29:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with "theONEjay"! Totaly childish! If he's trying to prove himslef as a "cool player" at this age.. no, I dont think thats what you're looking for.
2006-12-07 11:28:33 · answer #5 · answered by Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he like you like that I'm 15 years old I been threw alot in my young years something worser than that.
2006-12-07 11:28:35 · answer #6 · answered by sexymunday 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I have to say sweets is, when a person shows you who they are believe them. Keep moving.
2006-12-07 11:29:12 · answer #7 · answered by daloveman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may just get busy.... But to not call or cancel....
I would say that your best option is to move on.....
2006-12-07 11:27:23 · answer #8 · answered by JohnS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him, once a flaker always a flaker
2006-12-07 11:28:15 · answer #9 · answered by Sunshine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pick the right guy, don't rush, refuse to go out in first time
2006-12-07 11:30:55 · answer #10 · answered by Immi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋