She is flirting with other guys when he isn't around, she dosen't wear his ring anymore, and she writes I love and then puts someone elses name on her hand then dose the same to that guy! I know I shouldn't get involved but he calls me everynight and talks about how she is treating him, and he tells me if she dose it again he is going to be mad but she dose it then goes and bats her eyelashes and he goes "ga"ga" and forgives her then she dose it again and he gets mad...she even has gone as far as to ingnore him for four days straight... I feel like she dosent want to be with him then she gets tired of him then ingnores him then gets to missin him then comes back, I try to stay out of it but he drags me in it
2006-12-07 03:18:33 · 6 answers · asked by Kayishere4you 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is an abusive bitc*. I had a friend who went through the sam e **** (well they weren't married though).
Simply, he was being used. She used him for $$ and a place to stay whenever she couldn't go home or needed to do drugs (this last part doesn't apply to this girl I hope).
Tell your friend to dump her quick. Otherwise he can talk to her about her behaviour. If she doesn't wise up and really start taking their relationship seriously how does he expect that she will forever stay faithfull to him. He shouldn't order her to change but rather tell her about what he's thinking. If she respects and loves him she will change her ways, otherwise she will continue to use him this way because she knows she can.
Note: My friend didn't want to hear this but it was the truth because in the end she left him anyways (because there was no love from the beginning just convenience). He may get angry with you aswell but tell him your just telling him how you feel and what you know and let him know you care about his feelings because they are one of your best friends (if its true).
2006-12-07 03:27:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what you need to do is talk to your friend and tell him what this girl is going to him and maybe he'll listen to you get over her and go with you cause it sounds like if you like him...am I wrong.
2006-12-07 11:32:37 · answer #2 · answered by mysteryousmtz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to look somewhere else.. she is just playing with him there is no time for games
2006-12-07 11:22:52 · answer #3 · answered by xxscr3wston3splayaxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well how is this he involved with you? is he a friend or a brother?
2006-12-07 11:21:20 · answer #4 · answered by sweethyedreamer213 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is doing dirt but if he cant see it he is f*****ed, but maybe you need drop there problems and get your own happiness
2006-12-07 11:35:46 · answer #5 · answered by ladiesman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep she is treating him wrong.
2006-12-07 11:20:59 · answer #6 · answered by wingedgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋