Ok so there is this girl at my church that really likes me and i don't like her like she likes me.she asked me out to eat and i went.then the wednesday after that (last night) my friend eric asked her if she liked me and i was standing right there.she said yes and i was shocked because i don't see what she see's in me.we've only been talkin for about six months and she doesn't even really know me.i like her as a friend but nothin more.and if i do date her im gonna feel so bad because it would just be pitty dating her.so what do i do about this girl that likes me.
2006-12-07 03:15:58 · 17 answers · asked by inloveanddon'tknowwhattodo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you could tell her, you are not really up for a relationship right now or the truth, I see you as a friend and I don't want our relation to be ruin.
2006-12-07 03:36:04 · answer #1 · answered by babylove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As I am a girl and I am facing the same situation as that girl, I think the best thing you should do is by telling her the real truth. I know its going to hurt her feeling but still, if you have no feeling for her and u commit a relationship with her, its going to hurt her more right. I know it is easy to say that to do it yourself. Believe in yourself and have a gut to tell her your true feeling to her. I know its hard for her at first but gradually she will understand.nd u will feel relieve.:)
2006-12-07 03:24:39 · answer #2 · answered by hidea_shuji 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her the plain truth. Be respectful of her feelings, but don't lead her on. In the long run, you'd hurt her more by not being honest than by telling her your real feelings for her. You want to be friends with her but nothing more.
2006-12-07 03:19:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her. There's nothing worse then being lied to, especially in matters of the heart. Tell her that you think she's a nice person, that you enjoy hanging out with her, but that you don't feel more then just friendship for her.
2006-12-07 03:18:12 · answer #4 · answered by Skyler789 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you only feel friendship for her and then make sure you dont send mixed signals by going out to eat except in group situations. you can also tell her you dont feel that you two havent really known each other long enough or well enough to be anything more then friends.
2006-12-07 03:20:53 · answer #5 · answered by IvebeenAbadbadgrl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like her, then tell her thta you don't like her, and don't go out with her any more. For her you are the love of her eye, and will do anything for you, but if you abuse that, then she'll do what ever she can to make your life very bad, so if you don't want to be with her tell her and leave her alone.
2006-12-07 03:24:46 · answer #6 · answered by Jerome E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest from the start and tell her you only want to be her friend. better to let her down now than in a couple of months when it will hurt her more.
2006-12-07 03:19:36 · answer #7 · answered by nobodytotalkabout 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to her that you only want to be friends with her and friends only. If you think that you might like her in the future tell her that maybe that in future you two can have a realationship.
2006-12-07 03:19:33 · answer #8 · answered by Crazy K. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth and continue normal conversation from now on, and if she will be rejectable than leave her be.
2006-12-07 03:18:57 · answer #9 · answered by skullmaniac16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't tell her anything. I know you don't want to go out with her but if u tell her u don't like her but like her as just friend she will have heartbreak. But go ahead and say to her if u really don't care about her.
2006-12-07 03:18:56 · answer #10 · answered by The Guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋