What I mean is that they call me take me out for a few months and then stop calling for two or three months and after that period has passed they start calling again and want things to be the way they were before he desserted me. I mean keep it real don't they think that I've met someone else by now and it would'nt be Kosher to back track and see them again and even if I have'nt started dating someone else I don't want to start any bad habits. What I'm saying is I don't want him to think he can lay down with me once and don't call for two or three months and start calling again and lay down with me again. But I guess I can't call it a problem because everytime it happens I find someone better someone even more top notch than the last one so what's a girl to do?
2006-12-07 03:15:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stop giving it up and maybe you can move up from booty call to girlfriend
2006-12-07 03:17:43 · answer #1 · answered by Mike Honcho 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off stop laying down for them, thats the best advice I can give you. Just because a guy takes you out a few times over a month or two does not mean you need to spread open your legs for them. But from what you've said your more then willing to find "better" so why are you b*tching?
2006-12-07 11:21:05 · answer #2 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men like that only want one thing from you and from the looks of it you are giving it up every time that he comes around. What you need to do is get rid of those men and just be yourself and you need to stop looking for men and have the men look for you. Give it a chance...
2006-12-07 11:51:02 · answer #3 · answered by mysteryousmtz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dont put up with that....when youre fed up and theyre gone if they call again just say Im no longer available....men who dont love you in the first 30 days and say so arent worth spending more time on...
2006-12-07 11:18:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not having sex with them until you have actually established a strong relationship....you allow people to use you...that is unfortunately your fault however.
2006-12-07 11:19:41 · answer #5 · answered by Stacy H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about just keep doing what you have been doing.. don't "back track".. new is better
2006-12-07 11:18:51 · answer #6 · answered by lala15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you ever meet his friends ? If not, you are not his girlfriend.
2006-12-07 11:18:58 · answer #7 · answered by DixieNormus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They think that you are ugly and they use you as a practice girl.
2006-12-07 11:17:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
women you lot r CRAZEE!!!! dont be such a easy ride gf!!!!
lol only kidding!!
2006-12-07 11:17:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys like that only want sex
2006-12-07 11:17:18 · answer #10 · answered by xxscr3wston3splayaxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋