I had sex with a guy and we sort of agreed to be "friends",but now i feel like i may be getting attached to him and i don't want that. How do i tell him to back off without hurting his feelings. i still want to be friends, just not as "friendly".
2006-12-07 03:10:55 · 11 answers · asked by 1 bad chick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Being friends with benefits isn't really a good idea! Just be honest with yourself and him and tell him how you feel. Even though it will hurt his feelings, at least you told the truth!
2006-12-07 03:13:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to be honest and tell him that right now you do not want to be anything other than friends. Explain that you don't want to hurt his feelings and you are sorry if he got the wrong idea. Friends with benefits really isn't a good idea.
2006-12-07 11:15:47 · answer #2 · answered by Denise G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that him getting close wasn't part of the agreement.... The sex is over....Lets go back to being friends, there are alot of things you can tell him.
2006-12-07 11:15:38 · answer #3 · answered by moobiemuffin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that you are starting to get attatched, and you think you need to be just friends and not friends with benefits. but dont kid yourself, how are you going to stay off of him, if you realllllly want to be on him?!!!
2006-12-07 11:15:47 · answer #4 · answered by smitty4626 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell him how you feel as a woman you dont need to lie be honest with him if he really say he's your friend then he will understand
2006-12-07 11:14:10 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST TELL HIM THE LONGER YOU WAIT TO TELL HIM THE MORE HIS FEELINGS WILL GROW AND HURT HIM MORE
2006-12-07 11:12:57 · answer #6 · answered by Risa' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him nothing better then honesty and you seem to know what you want, go ahead tell him what you want
2006-12-07 11:13:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
can't happen. Guys can't be just friends with girls. you will have to cut him out of your life
2006-12-07 11:13:20 · answer #8 · answered by Drew9595 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the truth will set you free.
2006-12-07 11:17:52 · answer #9 · answered by Faith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be straight up and tell him
2006-12-07 11:14:11 · answer #10 · answered by angelica d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋