what do man really want?

Question

really i just dont understand them, an when it comes 2 sex we hve 2 do everything 4 them but they dont in return, well this is for me anyway, i tell him what i like an dont like, an he does what i dont like, why do they hve 2 do this, i hve been with him for 10 years

Answer 1

I am not sure why men are the way they are. I warn every girl I know that once you marry them they change completely. Some how they think they have that piece of paper and now they can be however they want cause they got you.
When it comes to sex and he is not pleasing you or even trying to please you then cut him off. Don't give it to him. I am sure that you can please yourself when he is not around. He will want it and then you say OKay but I want it like this and then if he is not interested in it your way then say ok, I can do without it longer than you can.
I am sick and tired of men thinking that we are the weaker sex. Just wait until he finds out I can get it outside the relationship faster than he can and more frequently than he can. When I cheat on him like he has been cheating on me, he will get caught way before I will because men don't tend to get emotionally attached like women do, my f*** isn't going to call asking for a relationship or asking me to leave my wife. Yet there they are thinking they are stronger, better, and more clever than we are. Well that's what he thought, LMAO

Answer 2

Have you ever asked him, what he likes, or dislikes. Maybe some of the things you like, he dislikes, and the other way around. Speak to one another. You have to communicate in a relationship also, no use just doing whatever either party likes or dislikes, without coming to a mutual point of view.

Answer 3

sexual domination by one of the parties in the relationship is natural to happen if sex becomes a routine. Be spontaneous do something different. If all else fails stop responding to his wants. Take what you need. It does not hurt to be selfish at times.

Answer 4

It obviously "ain't" women

Naw just kidding----bear with me as I try to get over my most recent heartbreak

---To make a long story short-- he (the guy who broke my heart--not intentionally though) confessed that he was gay--YUP--gay! and we BOTH cried about it, but although I was devastated over the news, I RESPECTED his decision.


BUT FOR YOU---

I think it's time that "lovely" 10-yr run you and your man have been on should come to an end. Yes, (I said it!)--END!!!!

BOTTOM LINE---YOU DONT HAVE TO DO ALL THAT HE TELLS YOU

Respect Yourself and find someone who respects YOU in return.

Answer 5

has it always been like this? if so then its your fault for staying with him. have u gained weight maybe? stop doing everything(whatever that is) for him and see how he reacts. if he starts treating u differantly than youll know thats the only reason hes with u, and hes a lazy p.o.s.-

Answer 6

some men want a relationship but most want to have sex with a hot girl

Answer 7

he is just being insencitive to you thats all but not all men are like that my husband does what i like during sex and because i org. very easy he always lets me do it once during foreplay.. dont just put all men in the same catagory... not all are like your husband and he just needs to be set straight tell him plain and simple this is what i like and dont like and dont do that again ect...

Answer 8

~You've been with him for 10 years and he still does everything sexually to you that you (don't) like? Why do you put up with that? You've answered your own question, they want sex. Stop letting him use and abuse you!~

Answer 9

Men want sex, any time, any where, any way. Try cutting him off for a while, then ask him if he'd like to try it again...your way.

Answer 10

You have hinted what men really want. But everybody is not like that. There is perhaps minunderstanding between you. Get that cleared everything will be alright.