2006-12-07 03:03:25 · 19 answers · asked by vs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Follow him around, check his received and dialed calls on his cell phone. One way or another you'll find out if he is cheating. And if he is, don't let him work his way back to you, drop him and find a guy who will treat you right and with respect. Best of luck.
2006-12-07 03:06:57 · answer #1 · answered by Grand Master Flex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think he is cheating? If you have some pretty solid evidence, confront him. If you are suspicious, but really don't know for sure, start watching him. Does he go out alone a lot, talk on the phone/text message in private? Is he still loving and interested in you?
If you don't have any good reasons to be suspicious, ask yourself if you have trust issues. Have you been cheated on in the past? How is your self esteem--do you feel worthy of your boyfriend? Just some things to think about.
Be careful. If he is cheating, you do not want to get an std.
2006-12-07 11:08:18 · answer #2 · answered by schweetums 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't assume anything until you actually see him do it. But ask him about it.. if he gets defensive about it there is a 50/50 chance he is. If he is calm about it and says no without any resistance then he might not be cheating.. but still keep an eye on him. Keep your eyes open for clues such as less time spent together, drastic changes in your love life, constant mood changes, u know anything out of the ordinary
2006-12-07 11:07:59 · answer #3 · answered by xxscr3wston3splayaxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do some investigating? What makes you think he is cheating? Is he acting differently towards you? Chances are if your suspicious then he is cheating. Good luck and don't forgive him if he is. Once a cheater always a cheater.
2006-12-07 11:08:32 · answer #4 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him. There's no way around it. You're already suspicious, you might as well get along with it and just talk to him. The relationship may end because of it...but really, is it healthy to stay with someone you don't trust?
How good will your relationship be if you stay with him, without finding the answer? You'll always wonder. That's not healthy.
2006-12-07 11:07:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First find out if he really is cheating on you and then if he is cheating then dump him. He is no good and only going to cause you drama.
Good luck :)
2006-12-07 11:08:04 · answer #6 · answered by Maria M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know he is cheating, and have 100% proof...just end it. You'll hurt for a while but put yourself around friends to get yourself distracted. Dwelling on someone who hurts you isnt worth your time or emotions. find someone new that is worth your time and effort.
2006-12-07 11:07:27 · answer #7 · answered by savage_haven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him directly. Usually a guy will confess, or leave. Either way you'll get the truth- if he avoids the issue he's probably trying to hide that he is.
2006-12-07 11:06:30 · answer #8 · answered by TheONEJay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you should tell him how you feel and tell him what he does that makes you thinks he cheating. and i think you ask if he's been seeing someone else.
2006-12-07 11:06:08 · answer #9 · answered by KEE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's really cheating, then ask him the reason for cheating.
2006-12-07 11:09:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋