hi im 16 yrs 'ld. i mansurbate quite often, kinda 1-2-3 times a day and im building up stamina ... she does not do it ever except when i make her mansturbate and thats like once a month or twice... when we meet. will it be bad for us when we have sex at a later stage in our lives ? like will i have to struggle more to reach orgasm and she'll be out before me ???
2006-12-07 03:02:49 · 7 answers · asked by Subho 2 in Health ➔ Other - Health
Why do you need to masterbate ? It is a natural thing at your age to have sexual urges but if you spend so much time maturbating you are setting yourself up for isolation as you will desire spending more time by yourself to fulfill your sexual needs. You should not make your g/friend do anything. If you both decide to wait until you become more mature to have sex, then you should not be putting yourselves in those intimate situations. Go outside and enjoy yourselves in the open and get to know and understand each other, get to know your own thoughts and learn to control them. You do not need experience from maturbating to have good sex when the time is right. Dont let your mind control you.
2006-12-07 03:19:15 · answer #1 · answered by Mitzy S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. Masturbation really has nothing to do with your sexuall stamina. What you need to practice is controlling your orgasm/ejaculation. If you just masturbate until you c u m, it will not help or hurt you when during sex.
When you are close to your climax, you need to focus on NOT having it, and see how long you can continue from that point.
2006-12-07 17:27:50 · answer #2 · answered by knihelpu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah..... she could be lying cause she is embarrased.... and sex is sex.... you can still get off... diff people need sex more or less than others.. and everyone thinks that guys always want it and girls dont, well thats a BIG lie..... Im married now but every guy i have been with, i want sex more!!! i could do it 3 times a day or more but they only want it like once every couple of days...and i do my exercises (kegal) so i stay tight.... it great
dont worry about her and just let her do it as to how she is comfortable
2006-12-07 11:08:15 · answer #3 · answered by Earls Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masturbation is a harmless method of relieving sexual tension. What happens now will it affect your ability to achieve mutual sexual satisfaction in your married life in 5 or 10 years.
2006-12-07 11:29:49 · answer #4 · answered by JOHN M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think many men have to "struggle"for an orgasm haha, some of the questions you kids ask lol
2006-12-07 11:53:45 · answer #5 · answered by Brian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
masterbation doesn't hurt your sex later. sometimes it helps. Just make sure you are using condoms and she is taking birth control. there are other things to worry about.
2006-12-07 11:08:22 · answer #6 · answered by katlady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY ARE YOU MAKING HER MASTURBATE?
2006-12-07 11:11:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋