The guy I am seeing is in his early 40's and I am a good deal younger than him. The problem is he has a live in girlfriend. I don't think they've been together to long (his wife died in '05) but long enough I feel bad sneeking around (I usually go see him while she's at work 2nd shift) but I do care about him and sometimes I feel like I can't help myself. We met in July and our relationship started in augest. I was supposed to go over there today but it's raining and the dreary mood got me thinking. Technically I'm not cheating anyway, right? So, how bad is it?
2006-12-07 03:01:29 · 8 answers · asked by AJ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know what he is and how he is I just can't keep myself from going back (I've only had sex with him twice). And as for my age I'm young enough I shouldn't be haveing this problem.
2006-12-07 03:10:53 · update #1
~You know what you're doing is wrong. How would you feel if some woman was doing that with your boyfriend? AND, of course you know if he'll cheat on her, he'll cheat on every other girl. Find someone who is available, heart and soul.~
2006-12-07 03:05:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many negative things I could call you but I won't. On the surface I'd say that this guy has it made. He has a live in girl plus you to play with. Seems like to me you and the girlfriend are the people here who are not very smart.
There are key words you used in your question that tell me that you have little to no integrity to go along with your lack of intelligence. I think you already have your mind made up and you're looking for somebody to justify you decisions.
Well, you may not like my answer, but I'm honest with you. Looks like to me you're setting yourself up for a heartbreak. On top of everything else, also looks like you have little self worth. Otherwise you'd see a guy who would respect you and not have you go sneaking around to see him. I think you deserve better.
2006-12-07 11:10:07 · answer #2 · answered by txguy8800 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now you know that this is cheating and extremely BAD! How would you feel if someone did this to you? It doesn't matter if they haven't been together long, what matters is the fact that you are in VIOLATION and so is he. You need to leave him alone.
2006-12-07 11:08:25 · answer #3 · answered by inquisitor1125 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the 'other woman' in a cheating relationship! Get the hell out of it unless he says he is leaving her for you. You really are just as bad as he is, you know he is with someone else!!
2006-12-07 11:05:27 · answer #4 · answered by suzanne 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're not cheating but you are having a relationship with a cheater and why would you want to do that? have a little more self respect for yourself and dump that user
2006-12-07 11:06:19 · answer #5 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your not cheating he is and hes using you as a piece of meat get a clue
2006-12-07 11:05:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
not bad at all AJ i got next and as soon as it stop raining can you come over my house
2006-12-07 11:14:25 · answer #7 · answered by kerry p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is using you hun, if he does it to her he will do it to you, how old are you anyway?
2006-12-07 11:04:47 · answer #8 · answered by Brian 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋