And hes recently told me that he does not want me to socialise with boys any more... as in go for a drink or a meal, even if im with girlfriends as well.
Not good as im a very sociable person and have loads of boy mates.
How do I handle this?
2006-12-07 02:34:30 · 6 answers · asked by Mel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he does not trust you. And that is not a healthy relationship. I think you need to sit him down and talk to him and tell him how you feel.
2006-12-07 02:40:15 · answer #1 · answered by greenlantern28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cmon its wierd but it also shows his love and shows dat he is so much possesive abt u orrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr its just dat he dont trust u and wants 2 keep u away fm guys. ask him out if its abt his love and being posesive abt u den if u really dun wanna miss true love (which does not exists now a days) den try 2 change urself a bit orrrr u can do another thng tell him if he wants 2 see u happy let u do watever u want 2 and tall him dat our relationship needs TRUST! okkkk? Talk straight forwardly! GOOD LUCK !
2006-12-07 10:42:46 · answer #2 · answered by dia a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
I've been married to my husband 5 years and when I got with him I was 17 and had a lot of guy friends and every time he picked me up from school and saw me talking to them he would get mad and jealous so I kinda stop talking to them. When we got married he told me that he wanted for me to stop talking to them so it was very hard for me but I had to think what was the best thing to do and I realized that my friends one day were going to get married and that I was not going to be with them anymore so I decided to go on with my life. Now my husband and I don't have any problems like that because he does not have any girl friends either and he's friends wives are my good friends so we get along really good. Think what is the best thing for you to do because I don't think that you want to trow away your relationship with this guy because of that. Plus think what if you do break up with him and then you find another guy that thinks like that are you going to trow your relationship away again?
2006-12-07 10:56:50 · answer #3 · answered by bonita_chiqui 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well be up front and honest with him.. Tell him you are not going to stop seeing your friends... he may leave because men like that want thier way..But you deserve a man who trusts and respects you... you have to stop this ehavior now or it will get worse later on and harder to deal with...
2006-12-07 10:41:20 · answer #4 · answered by evil_fallen_angel41 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a control issue plain and simple, he wants to control who you see and what you do, if you accept this need of his you are handing over your life to this person, now who is better at living your life him or you? you might also look at his other insecurities as well, because they are there
2006-12-07 10:41:53 · answer #5 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to ask why he doesnt trust you. with love, comes trust. or it should, i should say...if he is that insecure and there is no reason for him to not trust you, id say buh bye!
2006-12-07 10:58:32 · answer #6 · answered by heretohelp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋