this guy that likes me and i like him but there is one big problem. he has a girlfriend. but he is only dating her so that he can have a place to live. should we date or should we just be freinds with beniffits? and he has no feelings for her at all. he likes me so much better than her.
2006-12-07 02:30:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if u've got room in your place sure, becuase isn't he living with her? talk to him, if u 2 really love each other, then i think you can make room for him or make him get a place to live!! jeez, he should be able to find a plce.
2006-12-07 02:35:11 · answer #1 · answered by Aquaria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop it! Now don't you realize guys will tell you anything to have their cake and eat it too? Do you really think he's going to tell you yeah I like her a lot too? If he wants to be with the both of you of course he's going to make her look bad in your eyes. You being a female why would you want a user? But if you want him so bad don't cheat take him in and let him being homeless be your damn problem. The girl that he lives with should beat the hell out of you and him. You sound like a cheap thrill for him. Trust me, if he's living with her, he's still sleeping with her and I don't give a damn what he's telling you that you believe. Think! Use your brain not your crotch.
2006-12-07 10:38:25 · answer #2 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you choose to date, he'll have to break up with his girlfriend, which means right off the bat he's moving in with you. All of a sudden, you're living with someone you're not neccesarily sure you want to live with, which will stress the relationship and doom it.
If you go FWB (or he goes out with you on the down low), you will get caught. He'll get kicked out, which puts you right back in the same situation from above.
My advice would be to tell him to break up with his girl, for everyone's sake. If he doesn't, then he probably doesn't like you as much as you think he does.
2006-12-07 10:37:27 · answer #3 · answered by the_bald_one_mpls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELLLLLLLL NAWWWWWW!!!!!!!! girl leave that bum alone the big sign is he has a girlfriend right there if he has feelings for her or not he shall not cheat until its over because he will so the same thing to u listen to me and then he needs a place to stay so that means he is free loading never mess with those poeple on the real for ur on good dont do nothing with him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! he might just do the something to u when he is tried of you
2006-12-07 10:37:06 · answer #4 · answered by princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't fall for it girl, it's the oldest trick in the book. Do you really want to be the other girl, always only being second in his life. If he really wants to be with you he'd get rid of the othe woman and build his life around you, not her ad add you into it. I hope that you listen to what I'm trying to tell you about this guy, he's bad news unless he makes you his one an only woman.
2006-12-07 10:36:58 · answer #5 · answered by Jerome E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if both of you like each other then try to find him somewhere else to live besides with her. Before you date make sure that the ex understands that they are over.
2006-12-07 10:33:53 · answer #6 · answered by Crazy K. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he doesnt really sound to great a friend on both sides as he is only using the girl he is with for a place to live than what is he using you for
2006-12-07 10:33:19 · answer #7 · answered by laura j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try being friends for the time being maybe somewhere down the road they may split up and then you and him can see each other in a different light.
2006-12-07 10:35:07 · answer #8 · answered by Panzerpaul1955 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Judging from the name under your avatar, sounds like you've got more of them than brains.
2006-12-07 10:35:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he needs to grow up and take responsibilty for himself. You don't need a guy like that. He is obviously dishonest and not trustworthy. I wouldn't get involved.
2006-12-07 10:33:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋