Was chatting to a really nice girl today on the way to work. She told me where she worked, so I do know it, and I thought about emailing her, maybe see if she'd like a drink... A google would find the email address... should I?
2006-12-07 02:29:05 · 13 answers · asked by Le Tussock 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Personally I'd find it freaky and you'd probably scare her off. Just keep an eye out for her again on the train.
2006-12-07 02:47:52 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that might be a bit too much overpowering for the girl - firstly - do you think you could meet her again tomorrow on the way to work if at all possible? That way you could just ask her face to face.
I wouldnt go googling her - maybe just ring her place of work ask to be put through to her and explain that you'd been thinking of her and you hope she doesnt mind you ringing but you were wondering if she'd be up for a drink - its more direct and Im sure she'll be flattered by it. Good luck! xx
2006-12-07 02:41:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How well did you seem to be getting on with this girl? Some people are just chatty and can be even more so if they are nervous.
I'm not accusing you of being a nutter, but sometimes women will openly chat with a bloke if they feel threatened because they don't want to upset him in case he's a fruitcake.
I'd probably wait and hope to see her again. If you do see her again, then definitely get talking and try to get her number. :)
2006-12-07 03:19:47 · answer #3 · answered by Gilligan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That might be too forward. Do you think you will run into her again?
If so I would recommend that route.
How much could she have told you about her in the time it took to get to work, I doubt much.
She might have a bf and you could really be getting yourself into trouble.Or setting yourself up for a big embarrassment.
I give you hats off, it's a very bold move.
Just be carefull.
2006-12-07 03:02:03 · answer #4 · answered by lil' angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. That is pretty stalkerish. Maybe phone reception and leave a message with your number. Or maybe send some flowers? Or did I just cross the line?? The ball is in her court then.
2006-12-07 02:32:07 · answer #5 · answered by rondavous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to bump into her on the train again, I would find it a bit scary if i was chatting to some random person on the train and he searched for my email, ( i take it you didi meet her on the train)
2006-12-07 02:39:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no! you'd freak her out and she would think you were stalking her! which is what you would be doing if you got her email address and emailed her. if she'd have wanted to see you again she would have given you her number
2006-12-07 02:39:03 · answer #7 · answered by paulamathers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was you...i would phone the place she works at,i take it that you know her name?????????and leave your name and number...and if she calls you then great if not then leave it...i wouldnt e-mail she might get a bit freaked out...good luck.
2006-12-07 02:40:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
googeling is kind of stalkerish, is there any way you could happen to need something from where she works?
2006-12-07 02:31:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that's the easies way to contact her then yes
2006-12-07 02:30:36 · answer #10 · answered by Ms.Budonkadonk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋