He doesn't cheat, he's just is in his own world! He still has his place but is staying with me he only gives me 25.00 a week for groceries. I haven't said any thing about the gas,lights or water he uses. I don't want him to think i'm greedy. is that crazy? We argue or should I say disagree about our kids. Mine are 5 and 14 yrs. of age and his is 9yrs. he gets her on Wednesdays and every other weekend. She's use to getting her way if that tells you any thing. so pretty much every time he has to get on her when she's here after she goes home we are distant and have things to talk about. He acts like my 5 yr. old is bad and I'm on her constantly. I feel like its because he doesn't have his daughter here all the time and is jealous that I do. IS THIS ALL A BUNCH OF BABBLE!!! will we ever get over the kid issues? should I even worry abouy it I do love him and hate it when we are apart. ( by the way he's trying to sell his place and says when he does every thing will be 50/50 )
2006-12-07 02:25:49 · 9 answers · asked by Black M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he makes you treat your daughter like she is a burden to your relationship then don't move in together. Don't sacrifice your relationship with your kids over him. And if you ever do move in together and split expenses 50/50, get it in writing and have him sign it.
2006-12-07 02:35:18 · answer #1 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe with him having his place he can't afford to help you more. If he says it will be 50/50 when he sells I would hold him to it. But until then be patient. And the kid issues....U need to tell him everything you just put in your question and talk to him about it. It sounds alot like lack of communication.
2006-12-07 02:40:25 · answer #2 · answered by Just here. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm I dont think you really truly need in this type of relationship. Sounds to me like he is using you. So what's to say the IF he happen to sell his place do you really think it will be 50-50? You said in your first sentence (he's in his own world!) sounds like you know what to do and kick his butt out. You gonna have more problems with the children also.Luck to you.
2006-12-07 02:33:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's serious about everything he would have done it already (sell the house and help pay bills) if you don't address the child issues it will break your relationship....and you have to learn to compremise with both relatiopnship boyfriend and his child
2006-12-07 02:39:24 · answer #4 · answered by ladywetherell23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you all have probs to work out before you make any big committments!
2006-12-07 02:27:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I know what you mean....I think that you should...go out on a date...just to see where both of you are at....this way...you can find out....what he really wants....ask him..if he is keeping his place for a reason or what?...My advice is just plain sit down and ask him what is going on?...plain and simple....you are both adults...ask him to act like one...
2006-12-07 02:33:22 · answer #6 · answered by mbitternose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt either.
2006-12-07 02:28:21 · answer #7 · answered by bananaboo517 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't
2006-12-07 02:26:40 · answer #8 · answered by Ms.Budonkadonk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i think you should.
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2006-12-07 02:28:02 · answer #9 · answered by dana brown 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋