i am a teenager just entered college i love a girl who is a muslim.she is my friend but i think she knows tat i luv her so she is not speakin to me properly. she says she wants me only as a friend but i cant control my feelings for her. also she is a muslim wat shud i do please help
2006-12-07 02:21:29 · 22 answers · asked by munch 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Mr. Munch -Be careful. Have you found out if the girl is loving you. Only if it is yes, you can proceed. Even if it is yes the danger is there. They do not allow their girls to be married to a boy of any other caste and they may even kill you. Don't be mad and take hasty action. Make her to love you after that you have to do two important things -
1. convert to Islam and
2. have a circumcision operation immediately to show them you are really converting to Islam.
They talk to their house. There will be stiff opposition, try to manage. It will be very difficult to manage them. Try. Wish you a very happy married life-
2006-12-07 21:48:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's really sad to read this Hindu - Muslim think. Read the coming line with eyes wide open "We are God's children and for him all are equal". So far as world is concerned, don't bother, kick the *** of a person who raises this Hindu-Muslim thing.
However, concentrate on your love for her. Make sure your love is sincere and honest. If it is, be her friend. If you are true enough, she would love you one day. Give her a chance to know you better by being her friend. Thanks.
Best of Luck
2006-12-07 11:31:34 · answer #2 · answered by Sunlight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my brother, dont get into trouble at this young age. the aftermath will be very painful. it is a mere infatuation, one year ago u did not know her and never bothered for her. suddenly u are craving for some one whom u 'seem to know' for a few weeks leaving ur family who has brought u to this level. please concentrate on ur studies, replace this infatuation with positive thoughts, go for jogging, channelise urself for constructiuve work, please work hard further, avoid her totally. four years from now, when u have developed your responsibilties u can look at urself in a positive light. when u study well and settle in life, then she may ask for ur hand, if u spoil urself at the current moment, then ur career as well as the girl will desert u.
stop now!!
2006-12-07 10:33:28 · answer #3 · answered by Hercules 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just entered college ah... freind, u better study hard u got a long way to go.. whats so hurry.. there are lots of gals u will meet in ur live. dun make any silly decision. find a gal who loves u!!!! all the best. think before u do something...
2006-12-07 12:03:07 · answer #4 · answered by zorro_4040 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think you have much chance with her, as Muslim women should never - and are not allowed to marry anyone outside their religion. My husband is a Muslim, and I am in no religion myself, but we are different, open minded, so to say. We love each other, and other people had to accept it. Muslims love those who they should love, not those who their hearts go to.
2006-12-07 10:26:03 · answer #5 · answered by S from Dublin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will tell you one thing one should whatever things at right time studying time study you are too baacha do not fall in troubles or your life will become hell so as your parents pity them for god sake give me your phone no iwill tell your parents . how trouble they are taking to educate you please brother.take my case iam 181cms tall 180 pounds wheatish in colour ,mehanical engineer
divorced why because i did love marriage failure it is my advice
study well earn well love , valentine day , roses , words all humbug be a man when you have money hundreds will come running to you i am a free bird ienjoy life , visit places believe i get so much flooded by email by women i do not reply anyone let it be best of looking women , beware snakes( women) sorry bro
do not chase any women .believe me man iam also not a bad looking guy of course i do want to praise myself be good study well
2006-12-07 10:54:55 · answer #6 · answered by venkatraman s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live her alone.
This is not going to work, put million miles between you and her.
Now, concentrate on the studies, this is what you are suppose to do in the college, study hard, play some, learn a lot.
2006-12-07 10:24:04 · answer #7 · answered by minootoo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong in it, to have love with someone, but there are some botheration on us specially on indians, it is also no like that we havn't had such kind of relation in our society, i have some of good example in front of me but if ur family doent allow u do this u must not proceed the thing in this special case. dont fell bad but this is the fact, it is also no like that she is muslim so is the case it is applicable to everybody. so think over it and have the decision. after all this is your life, and after your decision please tell me. tushar_lovelly@yahoo.com
2006-12-07 10:33:55 · answer #8 · answered by tushar p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a muslim, too, and i can tell you shes doing it because it is a sin to marry someone from another religion. I think you should respect her and stay away for a little while.
2006-12-07 11:07:01 · answer #9 · answered by Heera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. See film "Bombay" directed by Maniratnam !
2. Respect Friendship .
2006-12-07 10:32:50 · answer #10 · answered by ourindiya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋