ok, i was goin out with this girl for about a year and three months she always told me she is really happy being in a serious relationship with me, then we had a fight three weeks ago, and she broke up with me 2 weeks ago, she said she doesnt want a relation ship anymore cause of the preassure, i havent really left her alone ive being calling her n stuff, and i know i shoulndnt do that cause that puts preassure on her and thats what she hates... its only been like 4 days since we didnt contact eachother, she said that she does still love me..... do you think their is chance that she will come back if i give her space, and what do i do if i meet her on the street? do u think it might be too late? please help me......advice.
we are both 19 but i love her, i know im really young but i dont wana just give up hope yet... i think she is confused about what she wants, i want other oppinions..
2006-12-07 02:18:00 · 9 answers · asked by Dan W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't give up hope, young love is something that is special.
You are too young to know how rough and hard life can be to you .
I wouldn't go all crazy and stock her, but send her a single white carnation, or drop her a letter in the mail box, simply saying 'I'm sorry,forgive me, I love you' .That's it nothing else.
Whether or not you did anything wrong, sometimes that's all it takes to put things in the right direction.
If you give too much space, sometimes there is someone waiting to jump right into "your spot"
On the flip side, if you crowd her too much she might resent you for it.
Just do LITTLE sweet things that you don't need to have physical contact with her, but still let her know how much you care for her.
Ever hear short but sweet?
2006-12-07 02:27:58 · answer #1 · answered by lil' angel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 20:20:49 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didn't mention what the fight was about. A year is a long time to have a relationship at 19. Of course she has feelings for you, and if she really did love you, she'll always sort of have feelings for you. If she asked for space that's what you need to give her. I'm guessing from my experience that your fight had something to do with jealousy issues. I could be wrong but at that age that was the most common problem. If you can't trust each other, then it's not worth the effort. If you give her space and when you cross in the street, you are just sweet and nice or fun and flirty, she'll remember what she misses about you. But if you're calling her all the time to try to fix what ever what went wrong you are only going to push her further away. Make sure you listen to what she says. Because if you listen she'll tell you exactly what she wants.
2006-12-07 02:27:07 · answer #3 · answered by wondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thru mistakes that we learn, what was the cause of the fight go back and revise the fight if you were in wrong make an apology n vise versa, sweet talk her and call back for your past, she is either guilty if she was the one in wrong or calling for your extra concern if you made a mistake when you resolve the above, she is yours again.
2006-12-07 02:28:32 · answer #4 · answered by ConRob 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure that she does love you. But not enough. At least for now. Possibly forever. It's gonna be hard since you have strong feelings for her. But the fact is that it's not reciprocated, and that's alot of pressure and hurt for both of you. She can't help that she doesn't feel as strongly for you now, and you can't help that either. Move on. If she comes back, make sure that she loves you as you deserve. Don't settle for half.
2006-12-07 02:24:45 · answer #5 · answered by roswell75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, it sounds to me like she has met someone else, she doesn't know where it's going to go with him, but she wants to keep you around because she does love you, but she wants to explore a little bit.
2006-12-07 02:21:26 · answer #6 · answered by Smittie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aaaaaaaawwwwww!!!!!!!!! how sweet! i would love to be with a man like you! yes, i think she is just confused thats all, give it time you will see, she loves you too! maybe she is listenin to every one else and not her heart. but deep down she wants to be with you!!!!
2006-12-07 02:24:51 · answer #7 · answered by tinker bell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does your heart tell you....you have to make your ultimate decision......sit down and weigh the effects of all your options
2006-12-07 02:23:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should need a break .
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2006-12-07 02:19:48 · answer #9 · answered by dana brown 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋