well his dad had a stroke andand he might not live. i want to be helpfull and try to get into his head so i can help him and be there for him if you were me how would you go about doing this?
2006-12-07 02:17:39 · 14 answers · asked by lizz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ummm... how big are you? Were you on "Honey, I shrunk the kids?" jk
Just talk to him. If you open up to him, he is more likely to open up to you. Guys are weird and don't know how to relate feelings well. They just need a little assistance (prodding). Good luck with that. I feel bad for your suffering (and his)!
Merry Christmas to you and your family.
2006-12-07 02:21:20 · answer #1 · answered by Jade 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is 'getting into his head' necessary? It's quite clear what is wrong. He is hurting. You don't have to psyche him out you just have to be there with a loving and understanding attitude. There is nothing complicated in that. The best way to help him is to just be quiet and let him come to you for help.
2006-12-07 10:21:55 · answer #2 · answered by i have no idea 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody wants someone else in their head so I suggest this. Be there for him by offering support as he needs it. He may need some time to himself to think of all the things this person means to him and others are not always welcome to these memories. Just be loving, patient and understanding.
2006-12-07 10:21:14 · answer #3 · answered by The_answer_person 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Head will always be appreciated...as for his father, I'd say he's going to need silent support and understanding. What he's going to go through you couldn't possibly console him on unless you'd been through it yourself. Stick to the 'head'...it'll get much better results!
2006-12-07 10:20:58 · answer #4 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best way to get in someone's head is to simply talk to them.
2006-12-07 10:18:58 · answer #5 · answered by Father G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lizz honey all he need is to know that you love him and will be with him in the good and the bad help him in every way you can and sure he know how much you love him.And he is ready he will let you inhis head
2006-12-07 11:07:06 · answer #6 · answered by bonnie3bd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him and support him. He'll talk to you and tell you what's going on when he can. He might not be able to put his feelings into words just yet.
2006-12-07 10:21:07 · answer #7 · answered by Merrily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is going through a difficult time. Just be there for him. When he is ready to talk he will. Just wait he will talk when he is ready
2006-12-07 10:22:48 · answer #8 · answered by cowrepo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't you just have to be patient with him when hes ready to talk he will until then give him all the support you can he'll come around
2006-12-07 10:21:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT get in his face...don't pressure him to tell you...give him time he'll come around to letting you in...be patience and give him time...just be there for him...help out in everything.....massage his back....cook dinner for him....hug him tell him your there for him.
2006-12-07 10:20:20 · answer #10 · answered by ladywetherell23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋