I met this woman 3 years ago. In between that time up til 2 months ago we having been just passing friends. Either she was dating someone or I was dating someone. Well, now we have been "exclusive" for 1 month. I'm loving it, but sometimes when we get into disagreements both of our first inclination is to say forget it. That is what we are use to doing in previous relationships, but we want to get out of that habit with each other to have an adult relationship ans try to make SOMETHING together.
2006-12-07 02:11:22 · 10 answers · asked by LovelyLes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Communication is everything--talk about it and try to find another solution instead of being in the old habit of saying forget it. Try laughing--it does wonders. So do hugs.
2006-12-07 02:16:44 · answer #1 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do like I'm trying to- work your problems out between the one you're trying to have a relationship with. When you have a problem, both of you should put some input in on it. "That was pointless", "we can get over that", or "well I felt like we could have/we can do..." If you two both really want to have a good relationship, then I think that both of you should go into a little depth, just to see where the other person stands. You might even find out a bit more about each other.
2006-12-07 02:17:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just work on resolving your disagreements and moving forward.
But also, don't waste too much of your energy resolving problems in order to "have a relationship"... if you truly care about each other as a person, it will become clear over time if you really make a good "couple" or might just be better as friends. Now THAT takes love and respect to realize when that is the case.
2006-12-07 02:19:56 · answer #3 · answered by zmj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the same question you just asked OF HIM. A civil conversation between the two of you can not only set the ground rules of your relationship, but it will also facilitate emotional intimacy. Your communications about who you are as individuals and where you want to be as a couple are essential in a successful union.
The fact that this is on your mind and you care enough to ask, shows (at least on your part), that there is maturity and willingness to be in a meaningful relationship. That's a GREAT place to start.
Good luck. ;o)
2006-12-07 02:19:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
~I used to be that way when I was a teenager. You need to ask yourself if you really want to lose this man in your life. When you feel like giving up and saying "forget it" go into the other room until you cool off.
Don't say hurtful things or let jealousy be an issue for you two to argue about.
Think about counseling, if you two truly love one another.
Good luck.~
2006-12-07 02:22:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is strong and patient, if you both really love each other then both of you could pass all of the problems in your relationships.Just keep holding on and never give up.Your love is stronger than your problems.If you want to keep your love alive you both could make it.
2006-12-07 02:16:08 · answer #6 · answered by missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up, if you guys keep giving up in every relationship you have you'll never have a serious relationship.
Good luck ;)
2006-12-07 02:16:33 · answer #7 · answered by Maria M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about how you feel and how she feels too. if you want to stop going into constant arguements, then u need talk about a compromise.
2006-12-07 02:15:46 · answer #8 · answered by Sharon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try harder and get some relationship cousling
2006-12-07 02:16:21 · answer #9 · answered by anthony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont change
2006-12-07 02:14:53 · answer #10 · answered by Rema K 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋