This is genuinely for my friend.
Recently she has been flirting with a collegue from work who is firlting back. They have come to a point where they have had quickie (completely quick) on their way home, now my friend is worried as this guy is kinda not firlting with her anymore. Ive told her its because he got what he wanted am i right?
2006-12-07 01:33:41 · 25 answers · asked by sparkleeyes82 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, you are right. He only wanted one thing from her and now that he had it. He is not going to pay any more attention to her anymore.
Your friend should of been smarter, and not do anything stupid even if she wanted to have something with this guy.
2006-12-07 01:41:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Having that quickie has severed his need to try and trying is the most exciting thing. Maybe flirting was all he really wanted and realised that when it was too late. Is this guy already in a relationship? Tell you're FRIEND that show that it doesn't bother and he'll soon start flirting again, but she needs to resist a little harder next time.
2006-12-07 09:43:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're right. That's always the cold bitter truth in "giving up the cookie." Some guys are just out there for sport. I think she should have taken a little more time in getting to know him before givng up the cookie. Too late, now. She can't go back in time. But for him to completely just stop flirting, he's feeling his mission is accomplished. Workplace romances are usually not a good thing anyway. So if it's over, let it be over. :-)
2006-12-07 09:38:53 · answer #3 · answered by LexyWexy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup i would say that is the case when he wants seconds he'll start flirting again. silly girl doing the just quickie thing with a collegue in the first place thats a big no no.
2006-12-07 09:39:49 · answer #4 · answered by dubgirl26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep you're right. He's had what he wants & your friend is no longer a challenge to him anymore. It was all in the chase for him i'm afraid. The excitement has now gone for him. Tell her not to be too bothered though, he's a loser & will continue to do this to women until he finally decides to grow up. By his actions I would assume he was fairly young & immature.
2006-12-07 09:43:09 · answer #5 · answered by EmmaB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
more than likely your right. it could be kind of awkward for him to be around her as well because he probably dont know what she's thinking. Yeah i was kind of in the same thing i was flirting with my manager at work and one day we just kind of yeah had a quikie in the office and neither one of us knew what to say to another the next day. it was very awkward but after a few days i broke the eyes and began talking with him we ended up having a short relationship i broke it off though cause it just wasnt really there you know. One of them needs to break the ice.
2006-12-07 09:40:32 · answer #6 · answered by tcameron_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely.
2006-12-07 10:45:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, but her not to worry. I'm sure he will call her around 2:00 am some night after he has had too much to drink.
2006-12-07 09:35:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes your right 100%!
2006-12-07 09:39:20 · answer #9 · answered by starglowshady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youve got it in one. i think your friend was hopeing for more but her work collegue had one thing on his mind and is now looking for freash meat,i hate those sort of guys they are out to hurt you
2006-12-07 09:42:48 · answer #10 · answered by rosita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋