Guys, when you ask a girl out and she says she's not sure if she can go or not and she says she'll get back to you, do you ever think that they've just forgotten and you think they're never gonna call you? Has this ever happened to you?
Girls, when a guy asks you out and you say you'll let him know, do you? Is the fact that the most recent girl hasnt contacted me yet just a coincidence? Should I call her?
2006-12-07 01:31:40 · 21 answers · asked by packerswes4 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is subjective...
If U know that girl's nature, U can judge whether,
This was a kind way to say a "No"
or
She is so busy or forgetful...
If the latter is what U feel about that girl, "call up" ASAP ...
2006-12-07 01:36:29 · answer #1 · answered by Fifa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she didn't want to tell you she wasn't interested. I would call you back if I told you that I would. And if I wasn't interested in you in that way I would tell you that up front, but most girls are either too snobby or they are trying to be nice and not hurt any ones feelings.
I hope that she calls you. And if she doesn't don't get hung up in it to much. Just move on and next time the answer from the next girl may be more honest. Whatever you do, don't sit around waiting on the phone to ring. Go out and have fun and if she calls while you are out and leaves a message then great but if she doesn't then you haven't wasted any time on her.
2006-12-07 01:38:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if a girl says that she'll have to get back to you, then she's not that interested in you. She was using it as an excuse to blow you off. Otherwise, she would have said yes right then and there if she really wanted to go out with you. Don't call her, just dust yourself off and move on.
2006-12-07 01:37:06 · answer #3 · answered by funnygrrl19 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl- If I say I will let him know I do. Maybe not immediatly but I wouldn't wait more than a few days. If I don't like the guy I just say it straight forward and don't beat around the bush saying I will call if I don't mean to at all.
2006-12-07 02:11:08 · answer #4 · answered by kupumentira 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-05 00:10:08 · answer #5 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me i wouldn't say "i'll let you know" if i've been eyeing him for a long time already! (duh), but that doesnt mean she's not that interested. Like for my bf, he said that to me when i asked him out the first time cos later I found out from him that he's just double-checking himself on whether he's ready to take the responsibility of getting himself into a new relationship, so that could just show that she's mature and responsible.
In your case I think you should call her up and ask her nicely (not to sound pushy) whether she's still going out with ya. But if you don't call her and she still doesn't give you a reply i think she's not worth going after for cos it just shows she's not very polite and doesnt show much respect for you.
goodluck!
2006-12-07 01:38:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call her to be sure--she may not be ready for a relationship or just not interested at this time. Sometimes being polite is the only way out.
2006-12-07 01:35:43 · answer #7 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never told a guy I would let him know. I had a guy tell me that once, and it is just cruel and unusual punishment to wait for an answer! I say move on. Her telling you that now is NOT a good omen. "I'll let you know" will continue throughout your relationship, if one occurs.
2006-12-07 01:34:55 · answer #8 · answered by Esma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't like you. If a chick says she'll get back to you and doesn't, that's a clear sign that she's not interested. Find another chick. Good luck
2006-12-07 01:35:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay here is the deal, she is saying one of two things. either she doesn't want to hurt your feelings but she's nott interested or two, she has a current dude she's got to get rid of first. if all else fails, call her, tell her how you feel, and if she says no, at least you can still be friends
2006-12-07 01:41:34 · answer #10 · answered by amanda t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋