If a girl was giving a guy mixed signals, would that put him off asking her out on a date?would he be confused as to what she wants?
2006-12-07 01:28:00 · 17 answers · asked by Special Lady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't give mixed signals keep it simple like paying attention to him and ask some questions
2006-12-07 01:57:28 · answer #1 · answered by Michael D 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, he sounds like he is treating his girlfriend the way he should by putting her first. If you were his girlfriend where would you want to be in line? Having doubts in his relationship with her is also normal. Everyone has doubts now and then. He spoke with a friend about it. But, he didn't speak to you about it correct? From what you have said I don't see how he has treated you as anything more than a friend. However, he pursued you to begin with. So he was obviously attracted to you at some point. If you truly have deeper feelings for this man and you aren't just feeling jealous that he is giving someone else attention instead of you and/or your just having a lonely moment. Then I would suggest that you sit down and tell him how YOU feel. Make sure you are positive that your feelings are pure first. Because he sounds like an awesome friend and i'm sure you don't want to lose that friendship. I think your over thinking this too much. Don't worry about signs that he is or is not into you. If your into him you should let him know. If your honest and true to yourself what's the worst that's going to happen?
2016-05-23 03:25:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People like to know where they stand with others, so if somebody is giving mixed signals then it confuses things and the person won't know quite how to react.
If someone was acting a certain way with me one minute and then completely different the next, I'd be thinking to myself, "What the f*ck!" I'd probably distance myself from the woman, until I was sure of what was going on in her crazy head. I certainly wouldn't be thinking about asking her out.
2006-12-07 02:09:52 · answer #3 · answered by Gilligan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he really wanted her and had an idea that she liked him, no. However some men don't like being made a fool of - so it depends how far the mixed signals are.
Also if it goes on for a long time - the man will indefinitely give up.
2006-12-07 01:31:41 · answer #4 · answered by Chazza xx Baby born 7/11/09 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some one giving you mixed signals, is a flurt, if you can handle that, ok, go for it.
me, I would look for some one else to be friend and date.
flurts turn into head games
2006-12-07 01:32:24 · answer #5 · answered by duster 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. I would have thought put him off i don't like playing games and never have if you like a guy and you know he likes you then go for it playing games doesn't work and in the end you will loose out!
2006-12-07 01:29:59 · answer #6 · answered by Missbutterfly:-) 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think anyone will be put off by that it's very easy if you want someone you show r just forget it
2006-12-07 02:06:42 · answer #7 · answered by shiva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! I Think so, She can't be trusted, Its one thing to play hard to get. But that hot and then cold thing is just plain annoying! Grown folks make grown folk moves, the hard to get thing is sooo unnecessary and stupid!
2006-12-07 01:31:31 · answer #8 · answered by Melrose 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it would, because how would he know what the woman wanted if she didn't know herself. Wouldn't just be easier to tell the man where he stands?
2006-12-07 01:31:47 · answer #9 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quite probably put him off. Go easy on him, let him know you like him.
2006-12-07 01:31:41 · answer #10 · answered by F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋