this girl used to just come into my room when i was alone at dinner, at the time i was trying to finish a project. basically she came in and asks for my permission to work in the same room (tho she didnt do any work). She said the other room is too cold n noisey.
She tried to initiate convos with me alot even though i acted busy, i eventually got the courage to speak, we hit it off.
i got confused about my feelings for her, i'd usually have moved on by now (6 month) but i still like this girl after all this time and i think she does too.
when im not there in school (absent) she does certain things, when she gets a chance she speaks to my mate and in private. This is pretty unusual as she used to hang with her own friends at free periods.
behind my back she is asking questions about me like which high school i used to go n where i am n stuff if im not there, if someone asks about your past and personal life is she wanting to get to know me more? She hiding something or it normal? ty
2006-12-07 01:22:08 · 13 answers · asked by CoolD 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we do not know eachother outside of school.
we do not know eachother that well and she has plenty of friends already.
we only speak at free periods.
she can be quiet with me sometimes.
and if im with a friend or shes with her friends she can ignore me at times or playfully tease me.
signs from the past tell me she likes me but im unsure sometimes.
im unsure whether she wants me as a friend or more. but would a girl do all this chasing just to get a new guy friend?
2006-12-07 01:26:04 · update #1
thanks everyone for the answers :)
thats what i always feel, like she secretly likes me but wont admit it or confess.
Ive complimented her few time and ive showed im interested like when i act nervous she must of caught on that im like that for a reason.
unfortunately she is away atm so i cant speak to her.
i think my problem is.. deciding whether to let this naturally grow or just ask her out soon or something because it seems like shes in no rush to go out with anyone, shes been single ages, i know that much.
deep down i think ive actually met the right girl before weve even been out, i know it sounds silly but i feel different about this girl.
shes always in my head but at the same time the feeling i have for her is weird, its defo not a one way thing because i wouldnt of liked her if she hadnt spoken to me first. Maybe its love?
2006-12-07 02:59:47 · update #2
She's asking because she has deep feelings for you, and want to know as much as possible about the love of her heart, and hoping it would get back to you, so maybe you will make an effort to contact you. If you have feeling for her, then you should stay in touch with her, and there would be no need for her, to have to seek answering from others. I dont think she is trying to do anything to bring harm, I think she is in love with you, and I am sure she would rather ask you...If you would contact her. she is missing you..... I hope you will reach out too her, this would end the asking of questions behind your back...Take care!!
2006-12-07 01:29:19 · answer #1 · answered by ladymaryum 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she's asking things about you, then it could be a good sign... or she might be the mad stalker type.
Seriously though, it sounds as if there's something there to work on. She's obviously interested enough to ask about you, whatever her reasons are for doing so.
2006-12-07 01:34:57 · answer #2 · answered by Gilligan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously yes she wants to know you more, and yes it is normal for people to ask about someone, its just showing that she is interested, the only problem is that, your not sure if she likes you or maybe she just want to be friends, so what you should do is to do a little investigation about her also and know her motives, you can do this by asking people close to her, or you could ask her! hehe anyway whatever you do, Goodluck and take care.....
2006-12-07 01:32:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
next time ya'll are together, talk to her about how you feel, dont be shy...that will just get annoying..start off the conversation strong, and she will listen. tell her that you would like for ya'lls relationship to go a lil bit further. dont rush into things. good luck!
2006-12-07 01:29:34 · answer #4 · answered by ..::Sierra::.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry mate, the only things shes hiding is that she wants to know more about you and thats coz she likes you.
stop obsessing and ring her if you like her.
2006-12-07 01:27:01 · answer #5 · answered by Michael T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I'm a girl and when i like a guy i act like that. b/c i don't know how to act if that person will like me or not so i act different around different people because i don't know how i should act. really if you like her you should tell her so you can get it off your chest .
2006-12-07 01:41:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she wants to know more about u and since ur too shy to talk to her she has to get info from other places.....she likes u and u should try talking to her more...u might end up dating :)
2006-12-07 01:23:57 · answer #7 · answered by jenivive 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she is hiding something, I think she wants to know more about you. Poor girl, don't break her heart!!!!!
2006-12-07 01:25:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is just shy about admitting her feelings to you.
2006-12-07 01:25:49 · answer #9 · answered by guardianangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too shy to ask u so she ask around and she likes u
2006-12-07 01:26:20 · answer #10 · answered by zoey z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋