i do believe that there are some girls that do choose personality more over looks and sometimes you can get lucky and find a very attractive person like that, but its not common ( i hope that doesnt sound shallow :(
2006-12-07 00:45:20 · 14 answers · asked by chris l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Here's the deal on the looks vs. personality issue. Anyone can say they choose personality over looks, and I call them liars. Sure, a great personality is fantastic when it comes to relationships. But, at the end of the day, you have to be physically attracted to someone for a relationship to work out. How many people want to say to their friends, "Oh yeah, Bill's a great conversationalist. But, we don't have sex, ever." Not something that I would want to say to my friends. I want my man to be the whole package. Literally. Great personality, and good looks. It can happen. :)
2006-12-07 00:50:11 · answer #1 · answered by BeezKneez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, personally I go for personality/looks combination. I first look at the personality and then see if I could be physically attracted to them. If not I count them as a friend.
2006-12-07 00:48:13 · answer #2 · answered by Lori D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,you don't sound shallow. Personally,I have to have a good personality match or I'm just not feeling it.You know? Definitely personality matters more.
2006-12-07 00:53:59 · answer #3 · answered by CML 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personality can overcome looks at times. i dated a guy that wasn;t all that cute to me but his personality is what won me over plus we talked on the phone alot before we met so that made a difference. I do alot of dating off of chat lines andthe internet and the biggest difference is being able to actually talk to a person and get to know them before you actually meet. My boyfriend now i met off of achat line and we really clicked on the phone. we didn;t meet until a month later and I just happen to be fortuante that he was good looking. It just all depends on the person
2006-12-07 01:09:16 · answer #4 · answered by Sexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
while i became into in extreme college, not gonna lie...it became into all bearing directly to the appearance. Now, rather warm adult males subject me because of the fact I immediately assume they have an ego concern...i might waaaaaay somewhat have basically a lovable guy or an undemanding joe with a very good character than an extremely warm guy. females choose adult males who're gonna cope with them like princesses, and egotistical adult males tend to think of of themselves way too lots to be afflicted approximately them. Your chum purely sounds lots greater all the way down to earth... so actual i seem for character. And a guy long hair helps:) steel heads are eye-catching!
2016-10-17 22:41:33 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personality matters to me because he can be cute but have a bad personality but if you have an awsome personality then you can go far with me!
2006-12-07 01:06:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have both but as i get older my personality shines thru even more. But I can still turn heads at 49...email me if u wish
2006-12-07 01:13:06 · answer #7 · answered by Jim G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to me personality more over looks
2006-12-07 00:48:44 · answer #8 · answered by FairGround 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personality
2006-12-07 00:47:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mostly personality but if we are goin for a guy they have 2 be at least somewhat (im not gunna lie) cute or well groomed and no its not shallow :]
2006-12-07 00:49:34 · answer #10 · answered by Blue Panda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋