My boyfriend might be moving about 90 miles away soon. It kills me to think about it cuz im afraid i might have to break up with him. He wants to stay with me really bad, and says he would NEVER EVER cheat on me but its hard to believe. I love him and he loves me but i dont know what to do. I dont want to leave him but i cant worry myself to death while hes gone. I dont know what to do. Does anyone have any advice? should i stay with him even though long distance relationships are crap most of the time. I dont even have a phone to call him on. I dont know what to do. Im the longest relationship hes ever had and he wants to keep it, but if he moves i dont know if ill be able to handle it. GOD I JUST WANT TO DIE!!! please help me !!
thanks
Signed, Confused.
2006-12-07 00:44:25 · 9 answers · asked by jessica j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on. Maybe one day you two will live closer to each other. Until the, don't worry yourself and be driving all over the place. Go have fun.
2006-12-07 00:47:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing is first, How old are you...
Under 18...
Stop worring. You have your whole life infront of you. My advise would be to try the L.D.R. (long Distance Relationship) work out, but dont expect too much. Explain to him that you want to make it work but you dont know if it will. Do what you can as far as staying in contact... Email, Myspace, IM, Letters, so on and so forth. Like you said though LDR suck 90% of the time. Good Luck. Either way you really dont want to die!
Over 18...
You should have a feeling about this person. In your gut, does it sicken you to think of what your life would be with out this person or do you think of what your life would be like? you should know pretty much if you can live with or without this person. And if you are older the 18 you need some help if you thing you want to die!
2006-12-07 08:56:31 · answer #2 · answered by mpreshe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how you are feeling. My boyfriend moved a month ago and we are now living about 60 miles apart and it tears be apart every second.
We've been together for nearly a year and we always said that proximity is a convienience, not a necessity. Living near to your other half makes things easier but you shouldn't give up on the person you care most about just because it will be a bit more difficult.
At the least, give it a try. Don't finish with him before he goes away just because you think it will be too hard - you could cope with the change better than you think!
Take care and be happy
Lx
2006-12-07 08:56:32 · answer #3 · answered by Lauren A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if he really wanted to stay with you he would of never move to another place. Men always say they'll never cheat, but they always do. I personaly do not believe in long distance relationship because usually doesn't work.
I am sorry to say that you guys should split. I know you love him but if is even hard to call him some times you guys should go your separate ways.
If you guys are ment to be, you guys will reunite some day.
2006-12-07 08:52:37 · answer #4 · answered by Maria M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have a phone? Where do you live?
Well you obviously have internet access, so you can use that for chatting.
If you're having this much doubt, then it probably isn't going to work out. I would suggest you try it out for a short time at first, and if you're worrying yourself to death and losing sleep over it, then I would suggest ending it. It isn't the end of the world.
2006-12-07 08:50:48 · answer #5 · answered by Mister 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him .you trust him . if you don't trust him then the relationship is already in the bucket! you could go and see him on the weekends and i am sure where he moves to there are phones. and there is still the postalservice or your pc with e-mails and messenger !
2006-12-07 08:47:48 · answer #6 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just accept it and anything else that happens... How old are you??? Cos you sound like you are 12!!! Life sucks sometimes, get over it...
2006-12-07 08:46:41 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to ask this question then there's obviously no love in your relationship....
let him go and move on...
2006-12-07 08:45:58 · answer #8 · answered by Kevin M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could you not go with him?
2006-12-07 08:47:03 · answer #9 · answered by Jade Emerald 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋